What do boys mean by using central air conditioning? Is this word derogatory?

The central air conditioner, when turned on, warms everyone around. This word is used to describe a boy, which means that this boy is a warm man and a caring person.

It is meaningless to simply say the nature of the word "central air conditioning". It depends on who said this sentence. If several female colleagues in the office praise a male colleague for being cautious and caring for others, it is a compliment.

But if a girl tells this sentence to her boyfriend, the situation is completely opposite. At this time, the word looks positive, but it is actually negative, suggesting that although you are sunny, you are not only warming me. Since it's the same for everyone, what can you say that you love me?

Warm men in life can be roughly divided into the following categories: 1, personality reasons and congenital warm men.

Some boys are naturally cautious and warm-hearted They are the type who like to take care of others. They have no special purpose, just because they are simple. This kind of warm man is the most harmless and popular.

2、? Cast a wide net, ambiguous and warm man.

This kind of person is warm and purposeful. They expect to get close to all the women around them by casting a wide net, and then find a suitable goal from it, gradually upgrading from simple warmth to ambiguity, and then realizing their ulterior motives.

At this point, his warmth is only a means to an end.

3、? Artificial warm man.

This kind of person is also very purposeful, but not necessarily malicious. For example, you want to get the support of female friends, for example, you want to get a good reputation, for example, you want to improve your influence through personal design, their warmth is purpose-driven, and everything is just a show and performance.

4、? Intoxicated warm man.

This kind of person is a typical self-deception and self-anesthesia character. They expect to get inner satisfaction by shaping the role of warm man, and think that this is the embodiment of self-worth. When they are warming others, they are pleasing themselves.

5、? Strong warm man.

There are two kinds of strong warm men:

(1) People who have a certain status and position in society have more superiority than those around them, so it is an idea for the strong to protect the weak;

(2) Male chauvinists believe that men should protect women to show their abilities.

In front of feelings, people are selfish, and no one expects his lover to love others as much as he loves himself, no matter what the reason is. Warm men are different from simply helping others. What girl doesn't want her lover to spend all her thoughts on herself? If you treat everyone equally, who am I?

Others may warm themselves through central air conditioning, but if so, even if you warm everyone, you can't warm the person you love.

So the warm man may be a good man, but he will not be a good lover. Girls still like the person who can warm themselves wholeheartedly.

I am teacher Yi Shun, professional manager, history teacher, literature lover, walker and tree hole.

Interpret emotions from multiple angles and evaluate life from multiple windows. Thank you for your attention!