Advise you to go to bed early or stay up late with you, which one loves you more?

"Advise you to go to bed early or stay up late with you, which one loves you more?"

This is a debate between Lu Cheng and Chen Xiaoyu in the third issue of the seventh season. Lu Cheng's point of view is "advise you to go to bed early and love you more", and Xiaoyu's point of view is "stay up late with you and love you more".

Lu Cheng's first argument is that staying up late is unnecessary, because for most people, staying up late is mostly due to their own procrastination. He told a joke: In the past, we often heard a saying: It is late at night, and the teacher is still burying his head in correcting homework at the window, and we will feel very moved. When we work by ourselves, we may have different ideas. The scene where the teacher corrects homework may be: "Oh, I don't want to correct homework now, wait a while."

In fact, we seldom stay up late because of work. In most cases, it may be because we are staying up late, such as brushing dramas, brushing short videos and online shopping. These are not sufficient reasons to stay up late.

Therefore, Lu Cheng's second point of view: staying up late hurts the body, and loving ta means protecting ta's body. One person stays up late to hurt one person's health, and two people stay up late to hurt two people's health. So loving her is of course to persuade ta to go to bed early.

After watching this debate last night, I actually didn't feel anything, because I stayed up late last night, because I was brushing Romance and playing Fight the Landlord for a while. When I got up this morning, I suddenly recalled the debate I watched last night and felt that I was the kind of person Lu Cheng said.

My internal psychology of staying up late is generally that I will stay up late at night to do something, such as reading, studying, doing sideline work, and so on, because it is late at night and will not be disturbed. I can do what I want by myself, but the actual situation is often that I have poor self-control, delay and most things don't go as planned.

When I come home from work at night, after dinner, I usually accompany her to the theatre or the movies. Once I turn on the TV, it's basically after 1 1, or even later, and then I wash my face and get ready for bed. At this time, I will think about what I plan to do at night, and then she will go to bed first, and I will stay up late, and then I won't get up the next day, and my work status is not very good.

Most staying up late is really unnecessary. After recalling Lu Cheng's point of view in the morning, I told myself to get rid of such bad habits, quit short videos, games, dramas, procrastination and staying up late, set tasks, goals and plans for myself after work, and use actions to resist anxiety.

Advise you to go to bed early or stay up late with you, which one loves you more? If I answer now, my answer is:

Advise you to go to bed early and love you more, but it is not simple to persuade a person to go to bed early. Instead, you have to make an action plan with ta that doesn't stay up late, and you have to accompany ta to implement this action plan. This kind of companionship, this kind of advice, is ta's favorite performance!