Satisfied with Jia 100~~ Who can talk about Xu Zhimo and three women?

In Xu Zhimo's 35-year life, he has constant feelings with three women. In addition to Lu Xiaoman, his original wife Zhang Youyi and another architect Lin all ended in silence.

Zhang Youyi was born in a noble family, and he was a wise man. 19 15 years, he married Xu zhimo in Shi Xia, Zhejiang at the orders of his parents. The year after marriage, Xu Zhimo went out to study. Knowledgeable Zhang Youyi respects her in-laws and helps them manage their finances. 192 1 year, Zhang Youyi went to England to accompany him, and spent a warm and sweet life with Xu Zhimo until Lin, who is both talented and beautiful, appeared in Xu Zhimo's life. At that time, medicine was underdeveloped, and abortion meant life-threatening, but Xu Zhimo forced Zhang Youyi to have an abortion in pursuit of Lin. Zhang Youyi said, "I heard someone died of miscarriage." Xu Zhimo said coldly: "There are still people who died in the train. Don't you see people don't take the train? " Xu Zhimo wanted a divorce immediately, but Zhang Youyi refused, so he left, leaving Zhang Youyi alone in Shaston. With the approach of labor, Zhang Youyi wrote to his second brother Zhang Junli for help, came to Paris, and later went to Berlin to have a baby. Xu Zhimo knew the whereabouts of Zhang Youyi, but ignored him. When the divorce procedure was about to go through, I found Berlin and forced her to sign a divorce agreement. After giving birth to a child, Zhang Youyi quickly recovered from grief and entered Pestalozzi College, specializing in early childhood education. After returning to China, he founded Shang Yun Company and took charge of Shanghai Women's Savings Bank, both of which achieved great success. What is more commendable is that after returning to China, he still served Xu Zhimo's parents (as a daughter) and carefully raised her and Xu Zhimo's son. The Complete Works of Xu Zhimo in Taiwan Province Province was also compiled under her planning, in order to let future generations know Xu Zhimo's works. Zhang Youyi lived happily with his son in the United States for 88 years. He died in new york on 1988. Xu Zhimo is cold-blooded, ungrateful, inhuman, fatherly and arrogant. But Xu Zhimo's abandonment of Zhang Youyi has become a symbol of Xu Zhimo's resistance to feudal ethics! It is said that this is Xu Zhimo's "loyalty and filial piety" to "4,000-year history"!

Xu Zhimo and Lin's father met when they were studying in Peking University. At that time, Liang Qichao was the Chief Justice and Lin Changmin was the Chief Education Officer. They are very close. Xu Zhimo, a beginner of Liang Qichao, often met Lin Changmin in Fu Liang and forged a friendship with him. 192 1 In the spring of, Lin Changmin went to study in the UK and sent her daughter to study in the UK at the same time. Xu Zhimo fell in love with Lin at first sight when she was in her prime. Lin asked Xu Zhimo for a divorce before talking about their relationship. However, after Xu Zhang agreed to divorce in March 1922, Lin somehow quietly returned to China with his father, leaving Xu Zhimo alone.

Lin soon fell in love with Liang Sicheng, the son of Liang Qichao, but did not hold an engagement ceremony immediately at Liang Qichao's request. Liang Qichao knew that Xu Zhimo still loved Lin. He was afraid that they would regain their old feelings and refuted Liang's face. At the same time, he was afraid that Lin Liang's engagement would give his disciples a heavy blow. Therefore, he asked his son and Lin to study in the United States and get married after they finished their studies. Liang Lao's painstaking Xu Zhimo naturally doesn't know. In order to pursue Lin, he returned to China from England, but his wish still hasn't come true. Lin Liang got married in Canada. As for why Lin and Shi Ma just hit the target and returned home, why did they write back and forth frequently after being so rude to Shi Ma? Lin Yinhui remained silent until his death, which became an unsolved mystery. Lin and her husband Liang Sicheng have made great contributions to the protection of China's architecture and ancient buildings (city walls, etc.). ) In Beijing. Lin died on 1 April, 955 1 day at the age of 51year.

It was Lu Xiaoman who had a great influence on Xu Zhimo. Xiaoman is smart and lively. She can speak foreign languages and sing. His father, Lu Bao, is a protege of the famous Japanese actor Ito Bowen. After returning to China, he worked in the tax department for more than 20 years. 1920, Xiaoman's parents chose the handsome General Wang Geng as their son-in-law. Wang Geng studied at the United States Military Academy at West Point and was a classmate and friend of Eisenhower (who later became the President of the United States). He worked in Beiping police station and later served as the police chief of Harbin. Wang Geng is serious and responsible. Lu Xiaoman is a romantic by nature and goes out to play regularly. Therefore, Wang Geng thinks that Lu Xiaoman has failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a wife and a woman. Lu Xiaoman thinks that Wang Geng is not considerate enough, and people who have drunk foreign ink are still so old-fashioned. At this time, Wang Geng's friend and colleague Xu Zhimo from Peking University quietly intervened. Lu Xiaoman does have certain cultural attainments and spirituality, but far from attainments, far from being a talented woman at the same time. After becoming the wife of General Wang, she became smart, beautiful and distinguished, and became a social butterfly in Beijing's upper class. As a result, she met celebrities such as Xu Zhimo and Liu Haisu, and learned painting from teachers.

Traditionally, Xu Zhimo's pursuit of Lu Xiaoman is unfaithful to his wife and unfair to his friend Wang Geng. But Xu Zhimo always does whatever he wants, regardless of the rope and ink. Once he "hugs at every feast", he can't take care of things outside. Both Lu Jia and Xu Jia think they are unfilial sons and scandals, and try their best to stop them. Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman believe: "True love is not a crime. If necessary, you can fight for it at the cost of your life. Martyrdom is the same as martyrdom. " Xu Zhimo declared to the world: "I am willing to take risks that the world does not agree with, but what I seek is the settlement of conscience and the independence of personality." In the vast sea of people, I am lucky to visit my soul mate, not my life, nothing more! " At the beginning of the trend, they were encouraged and cheered by young men and women, and embarked on the road of "not thinking about the old marriage and seeking the new marriage". For example, Yu Dafu said, "Zhimo is passionate, Xiaoman is as gentle as cotton, and when two people touch it, it will naturally burn into a ball. There, they still take care of Buddhist ethics and ignore the patriarchal clan system. " So,1July 7, 926, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were married in the presence of Liang Qichao. Interestingly, they insisted that Liang Rengong marry him. Rengong said he must be reprimanded at the wedding, and Shima agreed. In public, Liang Rengong scolded: "Xu Zhimo, you are impetuous, so you have no achievements in learning." You are not an emotional expert, so you divorced and remarried ... You must repent and be a new person in the future. " After the ceremony, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman went south to settle in Shanghai.

After marriage, the two lived a fairy-like life, but their love didn't last long. Lu Xiaoman's profligacy made him unable to make ends meet. At the invitation of Hu Shizhi, an old friend, Xu Zhimo taught in Peking University to earn some extra money to support his family. He asked a friend to buy a ticket for a postal plane for free, which often flies between Shanghai, Nanjing and Beijing. 193 1 year 1 month 65438+9 years, because Lin was going to give a lecture on China architectural art to foreign envoys in Peking Union Medical College Auditorium, Xu Zhimo wanted to join in the fun and the plane crashed. Before his death, Xiao Man met a young student of Yue Opera named Weng Wurui, the grandson of Weng Tonghe, a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, which was a heavy blow to Zhimo. Weng is a typical small shop in Shanghai. He has money and leisure at home. She can play, eat and coax women. Two people were inseparable, smoking a cigarette on the sofa all day. Being satirized anonymously by Shanghai tabloids made Xu Zhimo furious. Xu Zhimo repeatedly persuaded Xiaoman not to change and to make a scene.

Xu Zhimo was 36 when he died. That year, Lu Xiaoman was 29 years old and naturally lived with Weng Wurui, but they didn't formally get married. Weng and Lu parted ways in their later years. Weng has a new love again. 1960, Lu Xiaoman met his old friend, Yu Dafu's widow Wang Yingxia (the heroine of another famous marriage event in the history of modern literature in China) in the street, and couldn't help crying that she was alone, childless and Weng ran away. "It's really as bleak and lonely as the sea when you go out and enter the door alone."

Lu Xiaoman died alone in Shanghai Huadong Hospital on April 3, 1965 at the age of 63. There is only a friend's elegy in Lu Xiaoman's mourning hall. Her only wish before her death was to be buried with Xu Zhimo, but Xu Jiajian never agreed. Her ashes were kept somewhere until 1988, when her nephew returned to the mainland from Taiwan Province Province to visit relatives, and she was buried in Suzhou.