“When the child is not in danger, the father becomes the biggest threat.” Netizen: It’s not easy to grow up so big.

It is easy for a dad to make a lot of jokes when raising his children, but to others, this is funny, but to the mom, it is just painful.

Not only are these dads unable to help at all, but when they take their children out, they may come back with stains on their bodies. How can mothers rest assured?

''When the child is not in danger, the father is the biggest threat?''

Mr. Qu is good at everything, whether it is playing ball or playing games, there is only one thing he is not good at, Just taking care of the kids.

His wife is very busy at work and often cannot take care of her. The child can only be left to his father to take care of. Mr. Qu has also thought of various ways to raise a baby, but he is criticized by his wife every time he comes home.

He doesn’t understand, is this his problem or his wife’s problem? So, he posted photos of himself taking care of his baby online and asked everyone to comment on them.

After seeing these photos of him, many people said, "When the child is not in danger, the father is the biggest threat?" Some netizens said: Whether the child can grow up, everything depends on fate. Some netizens joked: It’s not easy for me to grow up so big!

It turns out that Mr. Qu likes to play basketball, but he remembered that his wife had told him not to let his children run around, otherwise he would be in trouble if they got lost.

After much deliberation, he came up with only one best solution, which was to tie the child to the railing next to him. Mr. Qu felt very proud of having come up with this wonderful method, but when he went back and told his wife, she lost her temper.

It must be very uncomfortable for the child to be tied up like this, not to mention what if the rope suddenly breaks and the child falls? This is no joke. His wife criticized Mr. Qu for being too careless and not serious about raising children.

Mr. Qu was not convinced, but after listening to netizens, he felt that he should really reflect on it.

Not only this Mr. Qu, but also many unreliable dads. When one dad went to get water, he let his child carry the bucket while he played with his mobile phone.

In his opinion, this is a way to train his children, but in the eyes of others, this father is really out of tune. It really shouldn't be necessary for such a young child to do such strenuous work.

So, what should dads pay attention to when raising their children?

1. Don’t scold your children

In many families, the model is basically a strict father and a loving mother. The father is very strict with the children. Even when they were young, they would be punished for making even the slightest mistake. Bao's father scolded him.

In fact, many children recall when they grow up that their father was so cruel to them when they were young, which did not help much. Instead, it made them reject their father in their hearts.

Fathers who have been raising their children for a long time will inevitably become impatient. At this time, they should regulate their emotions and communicate with their children in a more peaceful way.

2. Don’t throw your child up

When some dads are happy, it is easy to throw their children up and then reach out to catch them. To them, this was a cheerful interaction, but it was actually very dangerous.

There was once a father who regretted it because he threw his child too high and was injured by a ceiling fan. I hope that through this incident, fathers can learn a lesson. Accidents can easily occur if children are thrown away, so don’t try it easily.

3. Keep an eye on your children at all times

In some fathers’ minds, as long as they are around their children, it is fine. Little do they know that danger can only occur in a moment.

If the father does not keep an eye on the child at all times, when danger occurs, it will be too late to rescue him. Because the child is not sensible, he is likely to touch some dangerous things or be abducted by criminals.

What's more, some children like to grab things and put them in their mouths, and dads must strictly control this. When parents take care of their children, remember to keep an eye on them at all times.

Although there are all kinds of weird scenes when dads take care of their children, I believe that in their hearts, these dads also want to give their children a happy childhood.

It’s just that dads need to learn more about parenting, be more patient when accompanying their children, and strive to become experts in raising children. Do you agree with these statements? Do you think the saying "Dad is the biggest threat to a child" makes sense? Discussions welcome.