How do you deal with not being able to make close friends in college?

It is normal not to be able to make close friends in college.

I am about to be a senior now, and my relationship with my classmates and roommates is not as good as that of my high school classmates. Although we are together every day, everyone has his own life. We are all adults and have our own little ones in our hearts, and we will not give to each other casually like before. Sometimes if you treat him as a good friend, he may not remember your kindness.

When you get to college, you can actually feel the selfish nature of people. When we were in high school, at the end of the vacation, we would notify each other of what homework we had. When we get to college, if you don’t ask, he won’t tell you. If you ask, He may not tell you either.

I gave an example. I had to retake a course last semester. My upper classmate was the same as me, and then it came to the issue of moving to another campus. So at first we retaken it with the next class, and then submitted I was exempted from the attendance list, and then ended up not moving to the campus, and changed to open classes for retakes. Then I learned that the previous retakes class had two online assignments.

When he notified him, he posted it in a group I didn’t know about, and I received the notification and completed the online homework, but I was completely unaware of it. Fortunately, the homework done before retaking it at the end of the class does not count as my grade. Otherwise, I would basically have to retake it and I would not be able to pass it. Our school would not be able to receive a degree certificate if I retake it.

When I go to the bunkhouse, I act as if we have a very good relationship with him. I almost think I am a good friend with him. But in fact, he is usually the kind of person who is the first to be happy if something bad happens to me or something bad happens to me. When I first started school, I thought he was pretty good. After three years of getting along with him, I learned that he is the kind of person who likes to laugh at other people's jokes.

College is not a place for you to find a close friend. You are now an adult, and you are no longer the child who needed someone to accompany you before. You have to walk your own life. Even your parents and lovers may not be able to accompany you for the rest of your life. The only one who can accompany you for the rest of your life is yourself. Just live your life well. If you are used to being lonely, you still have to go on by yourself in the future.

As for other people, it’s just a relationship of mutual use. Friends can be together, but you have to know that most people can share happiness but not happiness. Be careful when giving sincerely!