What do you mean when you talk at the same time and say you don’t need to be so close?

When your colleague says you don’t need to get so close, she is reminding you that you should keep a certain distance from her and not get so close to her, which will make her feel oppressed and particularly uncomfortable.

My wife is such a person:

People may not believe it if I tell you. My wife is a person who doesn't like people to get close to her. Even if it's me, I can't touch her easily without her permission. Doesn't it seem surprising, but that's the truth.

One time my wife was watching a video and she was very happy. I turned my face to see what the funny content was? As a result, she immediately turned off her phone, looked at me angrily and said, "Why are you so close to me? It's so disrespectful." I said I am your husband, what’s wrong with being closer? She said I was not used to it and felt disgusting and uncomfortable. I said I brushed my teeth, but she said it wasn't a matter of brushing or not, but that I really didn't like it. Can you please respect yourself? Honey! ! !

Since this incident, I will deliberately keep a distance from my wife. If I want to get closer, I have to get her consent in advance, because I don’t want to force others and have a negative impact on her.

Yes, everyone’s living habits and temperaments are different. We should consider issues more from the other person’s perspective and have more respect and understanding. Only in this way can we maintain the relationship between two people and be able to live happily ever after. Live a long and happy life together.