Wechat friends circle in my eyes

20 17.9.25

On the afternoon of the weekend, basking in the lazy sunshine, leaning on the soft sofa, I opened the long-lost WeChat circle of friends and wanted to see what happened around me recently ... I found that several people in the circle of friends were still active:

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My friend Xiaojun is a fair-skinned and attractive girl. Like most girls, her biggest hobby is shopping. Because her home is in Dandong, Korea has become a place where she often goes shopping. Buy buy bought it, brushed it, and looked at Oba with long legs.

Suddenly one day, she wrote to me privately, saying, "Dear, I have already done purchasing. If a friend needs to purchase, add me to WeChat! " Since then, she has been one of the most active members in my circle of friends-various brands of luxury goods, cosmetics, bags and so on poured out like a fountain.

After a long time, those shopping enthusiasts have become Xiaojun's iron powder. Of course, some people will choose to block her. First, it is annoying to brush the screen, and second, it promotes consumption every time.

Xiaojun is getting better and better on the road of purchasing. Now she has set up her own team. She regards shopping as a way to make a living. No matter what others think, she keeps sending and brushing her hair. ...

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Many people in the circle of friends get up early every day and say, "Only by working hard can we look effortless; Ask yourself more, and you will be more independent. Good morning! " Before going to bed, I will say, "You can only choose between the sweat on your eyebrows and the tears under your eyebrows. Good night! "

Xiao Xin is such a person. At first, I was deeply moved by her positive energy and always felt that I didn't work as hard as others. Until one day, when we were on a business trip together, I found that she got up early and then fell asleep. She stood up just to press her finger. Except for the pursuit of food every day, her life has hardly changed. She just seems to be working hard in her circle of friends.

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Xiaomei is another activist in my circle of friends, which is called "big coffee". I remember once, when we went to Yunnan to play, she would say, "Wait a minute, I'll take a photo first." Hungry, we had to put down our chopsticks, provide her with the best photo angle, fill the light with our mobile phone, and finally eat the cold food.

When she arrived at the scenic spot, she was not interested in enjoying the beautiful scenery. Instead, she took selfies from various angles with her mobile phone: DuDu mouth, scissorhands, 45℃ angle ... When she returned to the hotel, her first task was how to make herself more beautiful and how to piece together today's food. She can freely use all kinds of P-chart software, successfully send a circle online with the last key, and then stupidly look at her mobile phone to reply to all kinds of comments. ...

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Xiaoyu is a gentle-looking post-90s girl, but every day in her circle of friends, she complains about all kinds of unfairness. She doesn't work overtime until late at night, and her eyes are full of tears. That is to say, she is angry with someone today, and then she talks endlessly. ...

It is said that the post-90 s girls are very self-centered, and I have a deep understanding from her. She thinks the circle of friends is the place where she expresses her feelings. She just wants to vent her psychological discomfort, no matter what you think or say after reading it.

At first, I would send a "hug" expression to comfort her. Later, I learned that what she needed was not comfort, but just venting or demonstrating to each other. We old people really don't understand the world of little girls!

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In the new media era, the speed of information dissemination is beyond your imagination. All units and departments not only have their own official WeChat accounts, but also hope that employees can widely publicize them. Among my colleagues, there is such a group of people who forward all kinds of articles on the official WeChat account every day, and send a post with pictures to say how the work is going.

What's more, the hair circle is as fast as lightning, and things haven't been finished yet. Let the leaders see the progress first; Even sending a picture in the middle of the night saying that the office toilet light is broken is a joke!

Based on these people, I think we should look at the circle of friends like this:

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Under the torrent of "mass entrepreneurship and innovation", there is nothing wrong with using new media to do WeChat business. People just feel that they are often screened, so they are biased against WeChat business. My understanding is that people are doing things, whether they choose to block or like to watch. This is your personal power. The only thing that has no power is to deny the WeChat business itself.

Making money is skill, and making money is king.

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Your "effort" is not in the circle of friends. Instead of expressing your determination in a circle of friends, it is better to hold a good book in your hand and let yourself practice physically and mentally. It is better to do it than to do it. Hard work is not a slogan, there is no need to show it to others. When you work hard enough, others will naturally see it.

The result is more important than the process.

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If photos can replace life itself, then printing photos is the murderer who deprives you of happiness. Your legs can't be thinner and longer because of P picture, and your face can't be white and beautiful because of P picture. In the final analysis, it is a sign of unconfidence! Food needs to be enjoyed with your heart, and beauty needs to be felt with your heart, and all this is just fixed on the beautiful picture in front of your mobile phone. I didn't feel it with my heart. In order to win the praise of others, I really have good intentions!

Live in the moment and feel life with your heart.

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No one in this world owes you money, so you don't have to pretend to be pathetic every day, because no one will sympathize with you. You don't have to say cruel words that hurt others. No one can buy your account. Your mood is self-regulated. Who hasn't been wronged? Who hasn't been treated unfairly? If you want to vent, it can only show that you haven't grown up. There will be no such childish behavior in the adult world. At least people can see that positive energy is also good!

Learn to control your emotions, and happiness can bring happiness to others.

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In the era of network information, it is not a bad thing to publicize works. But if you put the cart before the horse and wholeheartedly let others see your achievements, you may not have put all your energy into your work. Leaders always like people who look busy at work! There is nothing wrong with this, but making achievements may be more able to fulfill your work performance than sending pictures and photos, but I think so and do so.

Work hard and others will see your efforts.

It is said that people are mirrors. When I saw them, I saw my old self. Once, I didn't notice the beautiful scenery around me because I was too careless in taking pictures, and I was happy and complacent because of other people's comments. I will also drink chicken soup desperately every day ... In retrospect, everything I do is because I care about other people's eyes and want to show the good side to everyone.

Luo Zijun said in My First Half Life: "Face is the most difficult and useless thing in the world."

Don't envy the life in your circle of friends, because most of them are fake; Don't feel how hard you are, because this is life. The road ahead is long. We have too many things to do and too many books to read. Don't waste time in the circle of friends, because it's really not worth it!