The reason why you are not content with the status quo and are not enterprising is: leisure! ?

Have you ever been dissatisfied with your present life?

Have you ever wondered what kind of life you would have now if you chose another road at the fork in the road?

It's July 26, 2020, at 3: 30 in the morning, and I can't sleep.

Look at my life now, I don't know whether I regret my original choice or scold me for not having the courage to try to change the status quo.

Looking at Zhihu's answer about unwilling to make progress, it boils down to one word: leisure!

As the saying goes: idle people worry too much, lazy people are ill, and busy people are happy. Busy people's lives are always full and positive, and they are always moving forward. Even if you are dissatisfied with the present situation of life, you have confidence to recover.

Idle people are sad, complaining everywhere and haggling over every ounce. I regret the past blindly, but I don't know that even if I choose another road, life will be a similar result.

Four hours later —————————

At 7: 30 in the morning, I was full of thoughts and couldn't sleep all night.

Light a Ai Xiang and meditate for half an hour.

Make an iced coffee and life will go on.

Now that the cause of the symptoms has been found, the prescriptions are correspondingly varied.

Get out of your comfort zone, be self-disciplined, change your life, daily to-do list, etc. ...

We are eager to start the journey of life transformation.

The sun at half past five in the morning, the figure running downstairs, the busy cooking scene in the kitchen, and the spoken English in the corner. In order to change as soon as possible, we are anxious.

A week later, we found that life was as bad as before, even because of overwork, the spirit became more and more tired. And then back to the original point. Complain about the injustice of fate and lament the untimely birth.

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In fact, change itself is an iterative process, and change is a slow and long process. On the way to transformation, we will be depressed, sad and anxious. These are normal side effects because we are all human beings.

Allow yourself a lazy day and forgive yourself a discouraged day. As long as you make a reasonable plan, analyze the reasons for failure regularly and go back regularly, I believe that in the near future (not next week or next month), you will definitely become what you like ~