Guiguzi: People who are really shrewd don't say three words. Let's see if you have said it.

In life, most people are very jealous of those who are shrewd, because in their view, those who are shrewd always eat people, don't spit out bones, always hurt people in secret, and always do something sinister. Anyway, they are not a good person. This view is somewhat one-sided. Every family will meet many people who are shrewd in their lives. Guiguzi's strategy has been passed down for thousands of years and is highly respected by the world. Its wisdom is unfathomable.

first, if you laugh at others, people with talent have many principles and bottom lines in dealing with everyone. I won't laugh at anyone, and I won't look down on anyone from the bottom of my heart. No matter whether this person is stupid or stupid, people with talent always want to enjoy ways to praise him, so that they won't make any enemies for themselves, and of course they can easily achieve the goal of preserving their sanity.

Secondly, if you ask people about their privacy, whether they are friends or colleagues, if they mention one thing when chatting with them, and the other person is very reserved and unwilling to continue talking, or if they simply say a few words and try to change the subject, then they should have their own reasons. At this time, you should stop asking questions, and people who are not good at chatting will keep asking each other, which is very impolite.

Third, if you talk about people behind their backs, it will be a disaster from your mouth. Don't gossip at any time. After all, no one likes to talk about people behind their backs, make irresponsible remarks and point fingers at others. Those who gossip can only see the shortcomings of their parents, but can't see the horizon. Don't be the disseminator of rumors. Sit still and think often, regardless of people's mistakes. Respecting others means respecting yourself. It is better to learn from people with high emotional intelligence than to gossip, and spend time and energy gossiping to improve themselves.