Why do you want AA system after marriage? Can't you share it?

Unreasonable distribution of labor

Most AA marriages eventually die because of unreasonable labor. Compared with ordinary marriage, AA marriage lacks financial entanglements. On the one hand, it reduces the contradiction between husband and wife, but on the other hand, it also reduces the bond between husband and wife.

Therefore, at this time, the marriage of two people should be carefully maintained. But in reality, this is often not the case. In the final analysis, both men and women want to protect their property in marriage. But after marriage, many men not only protect their own property, but also protect their own labor force, and put all the housework on women.

This has caused the uneven distribution of labor in marriage, and therefore many divorce phenomena have appeared.

Two: Too careful in calculating money.

The concept of consumption is not at the same level.

Although the AA marriage explained from the beginning that each person spends his own money, it also made it clear that the expenses in the future life are shared equally by two people, and the separate expenses belong to him.

It's just that many times, some people calculate too carefully and make their marriage a joke.

Three: AA marriage also needs human feelings.

Ignore it, and mutual affection will be gone.

No matter what kind of marriage, you need someone's feelings. Even if both husband and wife spent their own money before, they were still in love. If one day, even this affection is gone, then marriage will lose its meaning.

Finally, no matter what kind of marriage, it needs the careful maintenance and care of two people. A marriage is not easy from the beginning, and it is destiny takes a hand to meet two people. Even an AA marriage deserves the best happiness.

I have never advocated or disapproved of AA marriage, but some people think that their ideas are open-minded, acceptable and difficult to maintain, but these three reasons are too clear.

Marriage is not a business, so you can't calculate the gains and losses. Don't get married if you want to count, or you will be disappointed.