If you marry your son, the betrothal gift is worth 1 billion? Is his position as the consort of a wealthy family secure?

All along, whenever there is any disturbance in a wealthy family, it will arouse the vigilance of the masses.

No, some time ago, the news that "Dou Xiao is preparing a 1 billion dowry gift to marry He Chaolian" spread a lot.

Because the woman is worth a lot of money, netizens’ first reaction was:

Even if you think about it carefully. Although Dou Xiao has always had good resources (if you look at his Weibo, you will see all advertisements from big brands), but it would not be easy to spend 1 billion at once. After all, when Bingbing had her accident, she had to sell 41 properties in order to raise 800 million.

As the incident quickly unfolded, many people even said that Dou Xiao and He Chaolian got married by serving their children.

Now Dou Xiao couldn't sit still and quickly issued a statement denying it, thus ending the controversy.

In fact, since Dou Xiao and He Chaolian officially announced their relationship in 2019, rumors of the two getting married have continued. Not only did she frequently post sweets on social platforms, arousing suspicion among netizens:

She was even mistakenly thought by Sister 0 that the young couple was married:

However, later, He Chaolian denied it when attending the event. This rumor. He bluntly said that his father had just passed away and he was still in mourning and would not get married for the time being.

Sister 0 also issued an apology, saying that she made a mistake. The young couple looked too sweet and thought they were married.

In short, to put it simply, the marriage is not concluded for the time being.

But in the eyes of the melon-eating public, Dou Xiao has already firmly entered a wealthy family.

Dou Xiao's road to wealth

Dou Xiao and Zhou Dongyu both became famous because of Zhang Yimou's "Love at the Hawthorn Tree".

At that time, the filming of the movie was over, and Dou Xiao and Zhou Dongyu could be said to be inseparable.

Not only did they participate in film festivals together, they also shot many magazine covers, and they also had a perfect chemistry when singing on the same stage.

Just when everyone thought that the golden couple on the screen might have something good come true in reality——

These two people quietly fell in love.

In 2011, Dou Xiao and Zhou Dongyu were invited to participate in the Spring Festival Gala.

When being interviewed backstage, Dou Xiao teased Zhou Dongyu: "She heard that she could attend the Spring Festival Gala, and she almost..."

Zhou Dongyu immediately interrupted and said: " Your saliva squirted all over my face."

Because of this sentence, Dou Xiao, who was originally smiling, fell into an embarrassing situation, and he stopped talking the whole time.

To this end, the two fans fought for hundreds of rounds in Tieba.

Dou Xiao’s fans scolded Zhou Dongyu for being petty, but he took the joke seriously;

Zhou Dongyu’s fans sarcastically said that Dou Xiao had been in Canada for several years and could only speak a few words in English, so why did he pretend to be a turtle?

Later, the two even quietly unblocked each other on Weibo.

Away from the scandal with Zhou Dongyu, Dou Xiao officially joined the camp of "rich princes-in-law".

At that time, he was not He Chaolian's boyfriend, but Bai Fumei was almost the one who spread the scandal.

In 2014, Cheng Xiaoyue appeared at the "Wolf Totem" movie conference, and the leading actor in this movie was Dou Xiao.

At that time, the media said: Cheng Xiaoyue met Dou Xiao while studying in Canada. After returning to China, the two met in the entertainment industry and their old relationship rekindled.

Later, Cheng Xiaoyue’s mother passed away. In addition to her ex-boyfriend Zheng Kai, Dou Xiao also appeared at the memorial service.

The side confirmed the close relationship between the two. But until Cheng Xiaoyue announced that she was with Zheng Kai in 2015, neither party responded positively to the relationship. After Cheng Xiaoyue, Dou Xiao became very close to the Ouyang sisters. Not only did he fly to the United States to spend the Spring Festival with Ouyang Nana and her family.

He also often forwards Ouyang Nana’s Weibo posts, wishing her a happy birthday, and promoting her concerts and new dramas. On the day of 520, I also sent a love message with the text na.

In the vlog posted by Ouyang Nana, she did not shy away from her close relationship with Dou Xiao.

However, some people say that Dou Xiao was not chasing Ouyang Nana at that time, but his sister Ouyang Nini. In the skiing photos posted by Ouyang Nini, Dou Xiao is next to her.

In the interview, Dou Xiao talked about his ideal type, saying that he likes girls with personality and wild personality.

Judging from the description alone, it seems that Ouyang Nini is more suitable.

Ouyang Nini also specially opened a Dou Xiao fan group, and the leader of the group is herself.

It has to be said that it is hard not to think of these intricate little details. But after Ouyang Nini officially announced her boyfriend Zhang Shuhao, the two had no interaction on social platforms. In addition to Cheng Xiaoyue and the Ouyang sisters, there is also a non-rich Xi Mengyao among Dou Xiao's rumored girlfriends. The source of everything comes from a photo on Xi Mengyao’s Weibo. There were three people at a table, with an older woman sitting in the middle.

Let’s take a look at Xi Mengyao’s caption for this photo:

Translated: Reunion with eldest brother and mother in Cannes. Therefore, many netizens speculated that Xi Mengyao was taking Dou Xiao to meet his parents. When Dou Xiao posted a shy comment in the comments, it seemed to confirm netizens' suspicions.

In 2019, the relationship between Dou Xiao and He Chaolian was filmed, and Xi Mengyao was put on the hot search. Three years later, she came to clarify in a leisurely manner:

It is not clear whether the romance is true or not, but it is true that the former rumored lovers both married (will soon marry) rich families. . Also this year, Dou Xiao appeared in a restaurant in Beijing to have dinner with friends. There was also a girl wearing pink clothes and a black baseball cap sitting next to her. During this period, Dou Xiao had to hold the girl's hand from time to time and put his hand on the girl's thigh.

After the dinner, Dou Xiao and the woman returned to the hotel together. After entering the elevator, they couldn't help but kiss passionately.

Of course, such an exciting clip cannot escape the investigation of netizens known as Detective Conan. According to analysis and comparison by netizens, this woman's profile looks very much like the gambling king's daughter He Chaolian. When the love affair was exposed, He and Dou simply admitted it openly and sprinkled a lot of dog food.

Now, the prospective son-in-law of a wealthy family has replaced the boyfriend and has become Dou Xiao’s biggest memory in the entertainment industry. On his current Weibo, he is either showing off his affection with He Chaolian, or making money on the platform with He Chaolian.

The careers and lives of these two people have been tightly tied together. When the audience mentioned Dou Xiao again, the only thing that came to mind besides romance was the "Hawthorn Tree Love" that made him popular 10 years ago. Most of his other works only scored between 4 and 7 points.

Of course, there are reasons for catering to the market, but it is obvious that Dou Xiao's interpretation of "The Prince Consort of a Rich Family" is better than most of his previous roles.

It’s really not that easy to be the prince-consort of a wealthy family.

As we all know, for a long time, wealthy families have been the most anticipated destination for female stars.

Some have to retire to make soup for their husbands even at the peak of their careers, while some have been with them as girlfriends for many years, gathering energy to wait for a permanent job.

In the process of entering a wealthy family, you will inevitably have to experience all kinds of bloody dramas and the risk of being criticized by the world.

But aside from this, as long as you get the coveted ticket, you will actually achieve a class leap to a certain extent.

For this reason, many female celebrities tried their best and fought all the way. For example, Michelle Reis, Pace Wu, etc.

In addition to female stars, there are also countless men on the way to the wealthy.

For example, Chen Zicong and Chen Shancong.

Although they both share the surname "Chen", although they both have "Cong" in their names, and although they both have relationships with the gambling king's two daughters, the two of them really have nothing to do with each other.

Chen Zicong was born as a model. He was very handsome when he was young. He was once considered the "Hong Kong native" of Takuya Kimura.

Let’s experience his appearance when he was young:

(Chen Zicong and Anita Mui) Unfortunately, after marrying his second wife, He Chaoyi, he became as fat as two people.

Faced with her husband's weight of 180 pounds, He Chaoyi is very satisfied: It's better to be a little fatter. When you get fat, you don't have to worry about him messing around with women outside. Ho Chaoyi is also worth mentioning. She is the gambling king's favorite daughter.

Unlike the eldest daughter of the second wife, He Chaoqiong, who is a strong career woman, He Chaoyi has had little interest in business since she was a child. She likes acting and has been active in the entertainment industry all year round. She also won the Golden Horse Award for Best Supporting Actress.

The King of Gamblers dotes on this angular daughter very much, because her unhesitating and aggressive look is very much like the King of Gamblers when he was young. Even the gambling king himself said proudly: "Chaoyi's personality is the most like mine."

Thanks to the favor of the gambling king, He Chaoyi does not have to continue to follow the trajectory of his sisters - marrying a well-matched man Children of wealthy families choose to marry the person they like. (Think back to the beginning, when He Chaoying married Xiao Baicheng, He Chaoqiong married Xu Jinheng, and He Chaofeng married the son of Malaysian owner He Zhijian, they were all wealthy marriages arranged by the gambling king. Interestingly, these three wealthy marriages all ended in divorce.) But between He Chaoyi and When Chen Zicong got married, the gambling king still gave the prospective son-in-law a big challenge: "If you want to marry my daughter, you must remember the three obediences and the four virtues."

This sounds like a sentence A joke, but all jokes have an element of seriousness. When a marriage involves a wealthy family, you cannot look at it from a secular point of view. Under the premise that one party has an absolute economic advantage, men's rights and women's rights in the past had to submit to power. Rich women have overwhelming resources and naturally occupy a dominant position. Chen Zicong is very smart and managed to survive in the fiercely competitive "Battle for the Prince Consort of a Rich Family". Not only could he and He Chaoyi spend more than ten years in peace, but the woman still never left him when he was seriously ill.

(Chen Zicong became ill and lost weight, but He Chaoyi never left him.) But Chen Shancong seemed to be one step behind in the game. He passed five levels and defeated six generals, but was ruthlessly kicked out before entering the field. Chen Shancong and He Chaoyun fell in love in 2011.

At that time, he was just an unknown actor in TVB, with average acting skills, average looks, and average resources.

So the question is, how did such a third-tier artist know the daughter of the gambling king? I have to mention an important person here - Chen Shancong's sister-in-law Li Bijun (Sophie). Li Bijun, like He Chaoyun, was born into a wealthy family. Her father is a construction contractor in Macau, and she owns five properties in Macau, which shows that her family is well-off. More importantly, Li Bijun has a very wide network of contacts in Macau. She has two well-known titles: one is the chairman of the "Macau International Women's Association General Assembly" and the other is the founder of the Macau fashion magazine "Soda".

Li Bijun’s circle of friends is full of ladies and celebrities, including He Chaoyun, the daughter of the gambling king. Through Li Bijun's help, Chen Shancong successfully met He Chaoyun. But acquaintance is acquaintance, and it is not that easy to win the favor of a rich girl. The first step Chen Shancong made was to abandon his wife, who had been with him for ten years.

(Photos of Chen Zicong and his ex-wife Yang Duping in the past) He and his wife Yang Duping have known each other for many years, and the woman has sacrificed a lot for him along the way. Chen Shancong wanted to develop a fashion career, so Yang Duping paid a lot of money to open a fashion store with him in Tsim Sha Tsui; Chen Shancong wanted to return to the film and television industry, so Yang Duping quietly became the "woman behind the star." But obviously, ten years of companionship vanished into thin air. On Valentine's Day that year when Chen Shancong hooked up with He Chaoyun, he quickly ditched his ex-wife and went to court his girlfriend with the divorce certificate.

Of course, after falling in love with the gambling king's daughter, Chen Shancong's quality of life changed drastically. I used to be a scalper at TVB and could only earn 20,000 yuan a month. Since falling in love with Chaoyun, not only did she live in Yangmingshan Villa with a monthly rent of 120,000 yuan, but she also drove the BMW car she had always dreamed of. Even when I go out, I always wear priceless LV shoes.

When they are in love, the gossip magazines in Hong Kong are full of news about them.

Even if the love affair has reached the point where everyone knows it, it does not mean that Chen Shancong's position as the "consort of a wealthy family" is stable. In order to speed up the process of entering a wealthy family, Chen Shancong has been working hard and taking steps step by step. The second step he made to enter a wealthy family was to learn to surrender and do what he wanted unconditionally. Before meeting He Chaoyun, Chen Shancong dressed simply and was usually elegant.

However, He Chaoyun likes design, pursues trends, and also has an eye-catching aesthetic... In those two years, whenever Chen Shancong was photographed traveling with He Chaoyun, he would definitely wear all kinds of unexpected and strange clothes. . Leopard print, see-through clothing, leather pants, tights, all arranged on the upper body.

Hong Kong media also used their usual venomous tongue, satirizing Chen Shancong for "turning a handsome boy into a monster in the past."

What should I say? It’s rough words but not rough words. The third step Chen Shancong took for the sake of a wealthy family was to give up his career and choose to lie down. Originally at TVB, although Chen Shancong was not a front-line actor, he still had films to film and dramas to take on. After falling in love with a rich girl, my love suddenly expanded. TVB doesn’t matter. The small amount of money an actor earns doesn’t matter. They don’t take it seriously. Not only that, she also publicly criticized TVB sister Da Le Yi Ling on Weibo. It wasn't until the media chased me and asked questions that I realized I had gone too far.

He Chaoyun had no choice but to come forward and wipe his boyfriend's butt clean with kind words and invitations to Le Yiling for dinner. Perhaps it was also from this time that He Chaoyun began to realize that the man in front of him was not very reliable. So even though Chen Shancong has proposed many times, He Chaoyun has yet to agree. Until that time, He Chaoyun got food poisoning in the UK, and Chen Shancong used his last resort - the warm man and warmth card. After hearing the news, he immediately flew to London and took care of each other in every possible way. He Chaoyun was defeated by this move and finally agreed to Chen Shancong's proposal.

But God’s calculations are not as good as those of others. After passing the test of his girlfriend, Chen Shancong was still defeated by his jealous mother-in-law. After learning about Chen Shancong's proposal, the third wife Chen Wanzhen used various means to force her daughter to break up. They cut off the funds and severely reprimanded them again, and finally succeeded in beating the pair of mandarin ducks.

Since then, Chen Shancong’s dream of “marrying into a rich family” has not only become a failure, but also became a joke among the people of Hong Kong and Macao. Hong Kong media even gave him a nickname: "Four Deaf". That means losing your girlfriend, losing your career, losing your image, and losing your money.

After all, being the prince-consort of a wealthy family is not that easy.

This seemingly glorious road to success actually has countless problems and tests behind it.

Getting that coveted ticket may be more difficult than most people imagine.

Even if you work hard like Chen Shancong, there will be a day when your dreams will be shattered.

"Son-in-law from a wealthy family" or "son-in-law from a wealthy family"? There's a big difference behind the scenes

Why can Chen Zicong become a "rich son-in-law" when he is also in love with a rich lady?

First of all, Chen Zicong is the grandson of the founder of Taiping Biscuits. Although his family is not comparable to that of the gambling king, the relationship between him and He Chaoyi is by no means a story about a "poor" boy climbing a high tree.

When Chen Zicong was 7 months old, he immigrated to Australia with his parents.

The family lives in a house of more than 500 square meters, which is also equipped with a garden and swimming pool.

Dou Xiao is similar in this regard.

Dou Xiao is originally from Xi'an, but when he was 10 years old, he immigrated to Canada with his family.

In the 1990s, being able to immigrate to Canada did not necessarily mean that one was rich, but at least it meant that one’s family was in a good situation.

Secondly, Chen Zicong does not have such high pursuit of wealth. Talking about his view on money, Chen Zicong once said: "I have lived in Melbourne since I was a child. The lifestyle there is very simple, which is completely different from Hong Kong where materialism is lingering." In Melbourne, as long as you have a stable job, you can live a happy life. hapiness.

So Chen Zicong’s material requirements are very simple. When he went out with He Chaoyi, he could stay in a hotel that cost 100 yuan a day. For him, there is not much difference between being poorer and richer. Even if he later joins the entertainment industry, Chen Zicong will not make movies day and night just to make money. Speaking of this, it seems that Dou Xiao is a bit similar. Before and after meeting He Chaolian, he was not the kind of male star who worked hard for his career.

When Chen Zicong met He Chaoyi, he had no idea about her wealthy background. It wasn't until his friend told him that he was dubious: "Really? It's so exaggerated, isn't it."

Furthermore, Chen Zicong and He Chaoyi have the same three views. As mentioned before, He Chaoyi is the most unique daughter of the gambling king. She was very rebellious when she was a teenager and didn't like a restricted life. She moved out to live alone very early. Chen Zicong, who was also a deviant, also dropped out of junior high school to go out to work and moved out of the greenhouse to live on his own. Similar life experiences made the two of them cherish each other and develop a mutual sympathy.

In terms of money, He Chaoyi is also infinitely close to Chen Zicong. She doesn't like the struggle for power within the family. Even the gambling king once made a family rule: one more descendant will get an additional 300 million yuan in property.

He Chaoyi still insists on being DINK and not having a child. While the other brothers and sisters were desperately trying to have a baby and grab money, she stood with her hands on her hips and watched them sneer.

Having written this, we can actually find that Dou Xiao’s experience is more like Chen Zicong’s than Chen Shancong’s. He and He Chaolian have the same outlook on life and values. Within two weeks of their acquaintance, He Chaolian was sure she had met the right person.

Although Dou Xiao's family conditions are not as prominent as Chaolian's, he has not experienced much financial pressure since he was a child, which has also created his mature and stable character. In the variety show "Adventures in Life", Aya, Dou Xiao and others made all preparations and planned to climb the mountain the next day.

As a result, the weather became very bad, and all the previous arrangements were in vain, which made Aya more and more frustrated. But Dou Xiao comforted her and said: The sky is just like this anyway, and it will not change just because you are anxious. If it doesn't work today, there will be tomorrow.

After hearing this, Aya couldn't help but praise Dou Xiao: "Your life is really easy." It is not difficult to imagine that Dou Xiao and Chen Zicong both have a happy-go-lucky outlook on life. The love between him and He Chaolian is more about the attraction of three views and the closeness brought about by hormones.

Let’s go back to the previous topic. It’s also about falling in love with the daughter of a wealthy family. Why can some people become “son-in-laws of wealthy families” while others can’t even become “brother-in-laws”? It's actually very simple. Rich people are much smarter than ordinary people. Many men who call themselves "human spirits" use all their means to pursue rich ladies.

But in the eyes of wealthy families, these are the most obvious tricks. In the process of accumulating wealth for generations, some people may have succeeded or failed in this way. Their experience is enough to see through your purpose and see through your pretense at a glance.

If you want money, you can abandon your bad wife. Of course, you may do even more unscrupulous things for money in the future. Of course, if you are sincere, you can't escape their eyes.

Under the right conditions, you may be able to get the beauty you want. But no matter what, the stories of wealthy families are still far away from the lives of ordinary people.

For every ordinary and insignificant you and me, meeting and cherishing the people in front of you is the best way to maintain relationships.