What will happen if a father helps his children with their homework?

There are many strange and weird painting styles, such as the child's father cannot solve the problem, the father is defeated by the child's cuteness, etc.

Recently, a group of videos of fathers accompanying their children to do homework went viral. Watching the fathers’ mentality collapse step by step, the mothers couldn’t help but laugh out loud. Netizens said it was so enjoyable. ?

In the video: ? A father asked his son: "How did the teacher teach this question at school?" ? The son said without hesitation: "No." ? The father was not convinced and asked: "I didn't ask you to do it?" ?

Unexpectedly, my son showed no sign of weakness: "Can I tell you (the answer) in the exam?" with an aggrieved expression. ?Dad really had something to say that he couldn’t say, so he could only hold it in until it hurt internally. ?Another father forcefully called his son eldest brother, which was also awesome. ?

"I feel like you were sent by God to deal with me, but you are kind to me. My mother was so angry that she had a cerebral hemorrhage. You haven't caused me a cerebral hemorrhage yet. I Thank you, brother, thank you." ?

The funniest thing is that a father breathlessly asked his son: "Do you still need to think about who is with whom? "This question?" A netizen commented: I am afraid that my children will say, "Mom and you, make me." Hahahahaha.

There is a saying in "Fu Lei's Family Letter", "The most tormenting thing is not mental labor or physical labor, but worry." ? Accompanying your child to do homework is worrying. Compared with the accidental collapse of fathers, mothers who accompany their children to do homework every day are even more miserable.

How can we solve the problem of doing homework with our children, and how can we stop this pain?

Let the child be independent, return the homework to the child, and let the child understand that homework is his own business. In fact, those children who do their homework as soon as school is over without the need for parental prompting or guidance are often because their parents know how to let go. Some time ago, I went on a group trip with friends. One of the friends took his child with him. In the early morning, before everyone got up, the child got up and memorized English words. ? It’s enviable.

Lower grades - plan together, use timers, and establish a sense of time? Starting from first grade, you should discuss the daily schedule with your children and guide them to use "timers" to feel the time. Over time, children will learn to estimate how long each task will take and how to organize their time. ?

Middle grade - start training children to make "weekly plans" and "daily plans" ?With the good habit of operating according to the table in the lower grades and establishing a good sense of time, it is easy for the middle grade students to guide the children Make your own plans.

Senior grade and above - let children master effective reading methods on their own? When accompanying senior children to read, it is not just "one command, one action" to simply accompany, supervise and strengthen teaching; more importantly, it is , we must always guide children to think about how to conduct review work for each subject.

If homework is an obstacle in a child's life, the only thing parents can do is to help the child become independent. The problem of helping children to write homework may seem complicated, but it is actually very simple: the most beautiful Chinese characters tell you that if your purpose in the past was to teach your children to write this question, in the future you can try to teach your children how to complete homework independently, and return the homework as soon as possible. Children, the more beneficial it is to children.