Happiness is similar, but unfortunately, it is a million kinds of Qian Qian.

The biggest difference between animals and people is that one should eat well, and the other should eat well, wear warm clothes, have a house to live in, drive a car and lead a life. This is why animals are sometimes much happier than people!

There is a saying in China that every family has its own problems. Even if you wear high heels and suits to work in the most awesome CBD, you may not be really glamorous.

If you don't believe me, just stand on the street, be an outsider, abandon your inner distractions and observe the world.

I believe you can see smiling faces and hear love words, but most of them are in a hurry, expressionless, even quarreling, dissatisfied arguments and crazy actions.

On weekends, those who seem to be in a good mood sit in air-conditioned cars and seem to live a tall life. They dominate a car as if they dominate the world, and they enjoy it.

Once there is traffic jam, the street crawling like a snail becomes a nightmare for them to vomit, and the pedestrians in front become extremely hateful at this time. That bastard who once overtook your car, even if you scolded him a thousand times, you still overtook BYD in front without hesitation. In front of the traffic jam, your mood becomes restless.

How about a happy life? Drink a lot, eat a lot of meat and eat a lot. When you really do this, when you become greedy, it seems that you are restless, and you only satisfy your appetite in midsummer.

But after eating, the lady will struggle and gain two pounds, and the man will be disappointed and have to support his family. There are mothers and children at home. A greater sense of guilt comes at you, making you more miserable.

There are all kinds of misfortunes in the world, some of which come from social system and a greater part from psychological quality. This society still eats people, but the way of eating is different. For example, I learned that a couple engaged in direct selling have a much more ingenious way of eating.

Direct selling is the product of social development. Many people don't care, but they hurt many people and families. This way of stealing money by taking advantage of human loopholes seems understandable, but in fact it is ruthless.

A couple, who love each other, usually sell sanitary products and earn seven or eight thousand yuan a month. They run around. Although the men are not skilled and the women are not beautiful, the husband and wife are really harmonious, and even their wives can't be pregnant, which can't stop them from supporting each other.

Since they came into contact with direct selling, they have been scared silly by the glamorous wealth myth. They put all their savings into this "cause"!

Finally, in order to make more money, the two brought in their brothers and sisters. Gold necklaces and jade bracelets propped up the scene and hurt more "innocent" people. This "innocent" should be put in double quotes, because these "innocent" people are actually stupid, otherwise they won't believe the jokes that fall from the sky.

Divorce is their ultimate destination, and neither of them likes the other. She hates her husband for earning less, and he hates his wife for being ugly.

Direct selling is easy to remind people of the proposition of human nature, because it is a very extreme way to use human nature.

But today I want to talk about the misfortune of ordinary people. How can people who abide by the law and do not violate their conscience live happily?

First, let's explore the root of misfortune. Unfortunately, it depends largely on people's wrong values and living habits, which will directly lead to different understandings of the pursuit of things.

Russell said that when he was five years old, he thought that if he lived to be 17 years old, he would only endure 1 for life. He felt that the long, tired and boring life in front of him was simply unbearable.

Later, he suddenly fell in love with life. He began to learn to eliminate unrealistic goals and began to pursue down-to-earth happiness. His change stems from his concern and exploration of external things. In other words, it is his thirst for knowledge that makes him happy and his sense of existence.

Interest in the outside world is the best way to help people get happiness, and the pursuit of objective knowledge can make a person clear the fog and understand life.

However, when vanity replaces knowledge and exploration, it is impossible for people to be interested in everything. Not only things, but even lovers, doing so will only make him lose his satisfaction with love.

In the final analysis, the meaning of happiness comes not from the harsh criticism from the heart, but from the desire for the outside.

When you can distinguish between beauty and ugliness, you will subtly influence your own beauty and ugliness. When you project your desires into philosophy, morality and belief, you can be redeemed by yourself.

Many people do the opposite. They put too much responsibility on others, but they can cleverly ignore their own problems, which makes them very unfortunate. Not only will you not improve yourself, but you will only make others tired. What's more, many people are deeply involved in it and even deceive others by self-deception.

Couples who are direct sellers are depressed when they know that they have been cheated, but they are unwilling. In order to "pay them back" and "make money", they choose to deceive others to join. This kind of joining is driven by pure interests, without moral constraints and spirit. In the end, I naturally lost my friends, my marriage broke down, and my conscience disappeared.

Happiness is similar, but unfortunately there are ten thousand kinds in Qian Qian.

Many people like Sanmao because her definition of happiness, at least in Sahara, is so fresh and refined.

Life is a multiple-choice question full of variables. Being interesting, seeking meaning and exploring new knowledge should be the greatest pursuit of happiness in this life.