What is the real reason for Wang's divorce?

Since Wang announced his divorce because of his ex-wife's infidelity, and hired a lawyer to ask for the division of property, the two sides began the tearing procedure, and news about infidelity, divorce, family property, luxury cars and bags was endless. I believe you are tired of watching it.

Senior also followed up at the first time, wrote many articles and read many articles, but always felt that many analyses missed the point. As for the idea of marrying love, seniors don't even agree. Moreover, the seniors found that many people knew the real reason for Wang's divorce, but they were afraid to say it; And they dare not say that there is a way to avoid such a situation. Why? First of all, it is understandable that Wang was unfaithful to his wife because of human nature. Don't worry, don't hit your face. The senior didn't do it for Ma Rong's platform. Listen to the seniors first.

We all know such a "Maslow's hierarchy of needs": in his 1943 paper "Theory of Human Motivation", American psychologist abraham maslow divided human needs into five categories from low to high, namely: physiological needs, security needs, social needs, respect needs and self-realization needs.

In other words, solving food and clothing is the most important demand, followed by the spiritual needs of security, socialization, respect and self-realization, which are gradually realized with the changes of external environment. In this way, you will understand how much temptation Ma Rong faced when Wang, who was already well-known and well-liked, began to pursue Ma Rong as an intern in Beijing TV Station in 2007. Now that he is famous and rich, marrying him can guarantee a good life. In addition, Wang Weiren is honest and controlling, and she can't hold his confession again and again, so she agreed and then got together. However, after marriage, Ma Rong didn't have much to do except have children. Moreover, Wang is filming all the year round and rarely accompanies her, so she is lonely and cold. Plus two people can't talk together, which is commonly known as "nothing to say". Most importantly, Wang gave all his income to Ma Rong!

Ma Rong later participated in some films and investments. At this time, she is naturally different: when a woman has money, children and a family, she wants to achieve what she wanted to do before but was afraid to do. In addition, Wang is away all the year round, and the two have no spiritual communication, and the agent Song Zhe is good at chatting and dealing with girls, so it naturally happens. This is what the ancients called cold and warm lust, and this happened! But can you really blame Ma Rong himself?

Think for yourself, don't women have desires? Don't you know? Wang is good to her, but there is no love! It takes a lifetime to live with someone you don't love all day! On the other hand, you are a successful man. You don't like your wife. When you are faced with temptation outside, don't you even do anything out of line? Ma Rong never liked Wang from beginning to end. These years have passed, and life is very reluctant. Therefore, it's really not entirely her fault to cheat. Therefore, dare to admit these primitive desires, not to encourage cheating, but: only dare to face the problem, can we solve it!

Since everyone hates cheating, can we rely on these moral judgments to avoid risks? If a person cheats, he will not be condemned, punished or suffer a lot of economic losses. That's the most terrible thing!

So, in order to avoid

This is the second question to be discussed next. Why is there no adultery? Should the derailed spouse bear more losses, even less or no property? Because the cheating party is the main killer of destroying marriage, shouldn't it be like this?

Look at Wang and Ma Rong's divorce. Now the focus is not on divorce, but on the division of property and returning to the legal level to solve the problem. Now there are so many people shouting to kill on the Internet. Do you think it will have any effect? Can you influence the judgment of law? Stop dreaming! Let the law belong to the law!

Article 239 of the Criminal Law of Taiwan Province Province stipulates that whoever commits adultery with his spouse, regardless of sex, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than one year. There is no lack of reference to this point, not just from criminal punishment, the key is to be effective and curb those who try to cheat in marriage!

What you said about loyalty to marriage is a lot of moral constraints, but is it still reliable today when morality is declining? Only the law! This is the spirit of contract!

There is also a legal matter, that is, the premarital property notarization system and property agreement. The system of property notarization before marriage is a common practice in western countries. Premarital property publicity, pre-marital property does not belong to the joint property of husband and wife. On the surface, it seems a little cruel, which China people may not accept.

However, once you accept this system, you will find that it is an important system to protect the rights of both parties. Now, many places in China have begun to clarify this concept. For example, if parents buy a house for their children before marriage, it is obviously personal property rather than common property. In this way, we can easily put an end to those who want to attack by marrying Bai or marrying a rich man, and let marriage return to its essence: marry if you should, and marry if you shouldn't.

There is also an agreement on the distribution of property, which is also a binding law for both parties. For example, some people will add a clause in the agreement that "one party does not enjoy the division of property and the house is clean."

Speaking of this, you probably understand the real reason of Wang's divorce and the thinking it brings: you can't deny the most basic desire of human nature, you can only control and reconcile such contradictions through some effective means such as law and morality! Otherwise, do you think that yelling and killing can solve the problem? Today, you condemned a Ma Rong and supported the king, but there are still thousands of Ma Rong in Qian Qian, and there are so many kings. Can you support them?

And if this happened to you and me, who would you rely on to support it? Only through the judicial process! Only laws and systems are the basis of our trustworthiness.

Similarly, so is your love. If you don't have enough attraction to attract sister paper, if you don't learn the secret of getting along, if you don't understand the rules of love, you will blindly do what others say, and you can impress her by giving her gifts and eating. Sooner or later, you will become a joke if you marry the school flower girl.

A woman's mind is very complicated. If you don't study, you will never know how to grasp their minds. You will simply say, buy her, buy buy, and buy an adulterer. What did you say?/Sorry? Therefore, instead of having time to shout and fight, it is better to calm down and learn how to attract and get along. Only when we master the fundamental law and use it for ourselves can we be truly powerful, so that the tragedy will not repeat itself and happiness will happen! We sympathize with the baby, but we should think more: we can't be the next baby!

Work hard, Sao nian! And the girls!

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