How to take good care of the old mother

My mother is 94 years old. How to take good care of her is a problem that our family has been exploring for the past two years.

202 1 years ago, my mother was in good health. My brother and sister-in-law go to work during the day, my mother is at home alone, and they go home at night.

After all, mom is 90 years old, and we are still not at ease at home alone. 202 1 I work in Xi' an, where there are only three buses from my mother's house, and I go home to cook for my mother at noon. Sometimes my mother will steam the rice until I get home. My mother is in good health these days and often chats with me. In this way, I cooked lunch for nearly five months.

In May, my mother went to the second sister's house for a week, and then stayed in Niehe Hospital for more than ten days, mainly to treat my mother's leg pain. Because my mother is old and her leg hurts for many years, she can only be relieved in the hospital and can't recover. Let mother be hospitalized, and another purpose is to give her some amino acids to supplement energy.

Niehe Hospital also has a nursing home. I took my mother to visit the nursing home. My mother chatted with the old people in the nursing home. She said to her brother, "I will never go to a nursing home again!" Most people who live there are unconscious. "

Haha, the old mother knows everything thoroughly! Of course, people who can come to nursing homes have poor self-care ability and most of them can't speak fluently. There are also some talkative old people, mostly foreigners, whose mothers can't understand what others say.

In fact, we don't want to put her old man in a nursing home.

After my mother came home from the hospital, because of the hot weather, her mental state was not as good as before, and she could not live without people around her. So our brothers and sisters discussed and decided that from now on (May 23rd), we will take turns to take care of our mother every day.

Eldest brother is also a 72-year-old man, and sister-in-law also runs a kindergarten. He sometimes buys food for kindergarten, so we try not to arrange eldest brother. Eldest brother's granddaughter is less than one year old, and it is difficult for her sister-in-law to take care of her children alone. We also arrange for her to have one day every two weeks. My sister and her in-laws look after her grandson together, but she can't look after her mother.

In fact, everyone has difficulties. My second sister and I are going to work, and my second brother is going to pick up my grandson from school. It seems that no one can take care of our mother, but we all overcome the difficulties. No one will do their best to take care of our mother.

My sister can't go for a week, so she will take a day off to see her mother at the weekend.

In this way, we have been taking turns until the National Day.

On the National Day, my mother was suddenly in a trance and couldn't get up, which frightened my brother. He urged us all to go home When we got home, mom was confused, so we took out all her old clothes.

After my sister came, she gave her mother a health medicine. An hour later, her mother came to her senses. The elder sister said that her mother was fine for the time being and could celebrate her birthday (that is, until the end of 65438+February). Eldest brother asked her to encourage her mother to eat well and strive for her 93rd birthday.

During the seven-day National Day holiday, under the careful care of my brother and sister-in-law, my mother recovered quickly, and there was no problem walking, but her voice was low.

After the National Day, we continued to take turns to take care of our mother.

I also pay great attention to arranging my mother's birthday, because my mother's health is not as good as in previous years, and my mother's birthday is also on Saturday, so I'm going to celebrate it. A few years ago, my mother's birthday, my great-grandchildren went to school, but the old lady's birthday, the children did not attend. Let the children come this time.

Who knows, because of the epidemic, my mother's birthday was not over, only my brother and sister-in-law gave her a birthday.

During the epidemic, my sister-in-law took care of her mother for more than a month, and her mother gained weight. The food she gave her mother for a week is different. We appreciate our sister-in-law.

During the Spring Festival, our brothers and sisters discussed that it is better to let the second sister wait on her mother alone, so that she can eat three meals a day on time.

In February, the second sister told the company that she was going to resign in March and let the company find someone to take over her cleaning work.

Since March 1st, Second Sister has been serving her mother specially, and our brothers and sisters pay her salary. Second sister said no, it is every child's responsibility to take care of mother, but we can't help it!

Special thanks to the second brother-in-law for his support!

The second sister served her mother-in-law, so she was considerate, so her mother-in-law was very relieved that the second sister would take care of her and asked her brother-in-law for permission early.

The second sister takes care of her mother and can say anything at any time. The second brother can take her place during the day and night.

My brothers and sisters have prepared this month's salary for my second sister. Wages are just the wishes of our brothers and sisters. I hope my mother will spend a happy old age under the care of my second sister!