What do you think of the bride's parents' insistence on bride price?

Nowadays, the competition is fierce. On the one hand, there are more men than women, and the big gap between the rich and the poor is one of the main reasons. Some people have money and want to marry three wives and four concubines. As for some people, even many people, they can't afford to buy a house and a car. Coupled with the bride price money and decoration money, they owe money everywhere, leaving a debt! Regarding the bride price money, we should treat it rationally. The two families should not break up because of the bride price money, thus hurting the children's hearts. The custom of bride price is not new in recent years. It has existed in China since ancient times. In the past, the bride price was similar to the present bride price.

In fact, no matter whether the bride price should be paid or not, what everyone said from their own point of view is very reasonable. But this is mainly a matter of degree. If it exceeds this degree, the man can't afford this high price, then the final result is that what was originally a very festive event will end in discord. The problem of high bride price is particularly serious in rural areas. Nowadays, there are more and more bachelors in rural areas, just because of the high bride price expectations.

In fact, the amount of bride price is not very important. What matters is whether this man is sincere to you and has the ability to work to create the future. From the woman's side. Parents raised for twenty or thirty years? Little cotton-padded jacket? Just being given by others? Wear? Go, think about it, parents can not be sad? Have you ever seen the scene of parents sending their daughters to get married and shed tears in your life? When you are in your twenties, you think that the woman's parents have gone a little too far. If one day, your daughter gets married, that heartache is self-evident.

No matter how much the bride price is, in fact, a man's character is the most important thing. If his character is not good, no amount of bride price days will go on. On the contrary, the other person's character is good, and whether he wants a bride price or not will not be too bad. The order of examining each other is the husband first, followed by the in-laws. If the husband is particularly good and willing to live separately, the in-laws don't have to care too much.