What's it like to have a husband who likes to lie?

After five years of marriage, I have been worried about one thing, that is, my husband can't change his habit of lying. He quarreled, but he was used to it. I think my relationship with my husband has always been very good. Although I will quarrel occasionally like other couples, I have always regarded this as a simple quarrel between husband and wife, mostly because I found out that he was lying.

I thought I could get rid of this bad habit every time I lied and quarreled for him. However, every time I can still find that he can lie in front of me without changing his face. So, in a fit of pique, I offered to divorce him several times. Although there is no real divorce, I talk too much about divorce, and I will take it seriously sooner or later.

In fact, I know that I have a bad temper and a particularly competitive personality. I like to dominate and even decide my husband's personal affairs. Although I also know that I am so bad that I shouldn't interfere too much in my husband's personal life, I just can't help myself and always don't like him interacting with some people. Therefore, many times I know that he is always deceiving me to avoid conflicts with me, but when I already know the truth, I still hear my husband telling lies with his eyes open.

To tell the truth, my husband is excellent in his career and making money except for lying in front of me habitually. Usually, when he is free, he will stay at home with me, and he is full of fatherly love for his children. So, on the whole, except that he lied, I am quite satisfied with our relationship.

It's just that he always tells me happy things at work, but he never hears me say anything troublesome, or I always find him lying. Even in great difficulties, he didn't hear a word from me at home.

In fact, there are two kinds of lies, one is a white lie and the other is a true lie. Most of your husbands don't want you to worry too much about him. He habitually broadens your mind with white lies and doesn't want you to worry about his hard work outside. And your strong personality and interventionist personality are also the fundamental reasons why your husband doesn't want you to participate in his career.

In other words, many quarrels could have been avoided, provided that the mentality was more pregnant. If you give a man a relaxed living environment, his husband won't have to worry that what he says will make you unhappy, and there is no need to always make us happy with white lies.