Why does Li Huanying deny her daughter at the beginning of "Hello, Li Huanying"?

Recognizing my daughter means that this trip has been in vain.

This story is not a time-travel story, it is a mother's last effort to save her daughter.

On the surface, it was Jia Xiaoling who tried to help Li Huanying make a new choice by changing her mother Li Huanying's direction in 1981, so that Li Huanying could live a better life, even if it meant that she Will not be born.

But in fact, after the reversal is revealed, you will find that this is a dream.

The core creator of this dream was Li Huanying while she was dying in the hospital bed.

There are many details echoing back and forth in the film to explain the biggest foreshadowing of the entire film.

When Jia Xiaoling woke up in front of the hospital bed for the first time, there was no one on the bed, which meant that Li Huanying had entered the dream before her.

When Jia Xiaoling fell into 1981, the young Zhang Jiang said that Li Huanying praised him for getting younger, and the first thing Li Huanying said when entering the dream was to say to Zhang Jiang, "Why are you so young?"

Li Huanying repeatedly solved Jia Xiaoling’s jokes, made up a false identity for Jia Xiaoling to deal with everyone’s doubts, and helped Jia Xiaoling mend her pants when she was not able to sew. All this shows that this Li Huanying is not Not the Li Huanying of 1981, but the Li Huanying of later years.

Then the question is, why did Li Huanying create this dream for Jia Xiaoling? Why didn't she just meet her daughter in the dream world instead of going through all the trouble to hide it?

Because she wanted to help Jia Xiaoling get out of the shadow in her heart.

What is Jia Xiaoling’s psychological crux? She felt that she had failed her parents' expectations, that she had no merit and was not outstanding, that she was not worthy of being liked, and that her mother was going to leave before she could "make a difference".

So Li Huanying, who opened this dream by accident, took advantage of the situation and used local materials to arrange three healing processes for Jia Xiaoling. The first process: you did not live up to my expectations.

Jia Xiaoling has always felt that she has not looked good to her parents, she does not study well, she is fat, and she has failed her family's expectations.

But deep down in her heart, Li Huanying did not think so.

So she used her younger self to say to Jia Xiaoling what she had never had the chance to say.

"My daughter, I just want her to be healthy and happy."

"What do you mean it is of no use at all?"

You feel you are sorry? Me, you think you are dragging me down. In fact, as long as you are alive and kicking, I am proud enough. This is the case before and now. The second process: you have your shining point.

In the movie, in order to help Shen Guanglin chase Li Huanying, Jia Xiaoling arranged a two-person show for Shen Guanglin and invited Li Huanying to watch it.

Li Huanying first said that she didn’t want to go. Jia Xiaoling said that I arranged this show. Li Huanying immediately laughed, “Then I have to go.”

Including the volleyball match, Jia Xiaoling thought that it was her efforts that contributed to her "mother's dream of participating in a volleyball match when she was young." In fact, it was Li Huanying who secretly helped Jia Xiaoling realize her "dream of helping her mother participate in a volleyball match."

She did these things just to let Jia Xiaoling know that, girl, as long as you work hard, you can be great.

You see, you can perform on stage, you can organize many people together, and you can infect and influence others.

You have your shining points, I know, but you don’t know, so I must let you know. The third process: you will also be liked.

Many people are struggling with a question after watching the movie: What is the significance of the character "Leng Te" played by Chen He?

Only looking at the first four-fifths of the story, his contribution to the plot is basically very small, and it seems to be really dispensable.

But after the suspense was revealed, I immediately understood the meaning of Leng Te’s existence.

He was originally a person who did not belong to any world. He was a character created by Li Huanying.

Lengte is the last link in Li Huanying’s dream for Jia Xiaoling: My daughter, maybe your figure and appearance are not outstanding, maybe you have low self-esteem in your heart, but there will still be people who like you like this. ah.

In your future life, there will definitely be someone like Leng Te who can accompany you crazy, accompany you and see the unique and beautiful things in you.

He will have a similar growth experience to you, be able to understand you, and be considerate of you. He will laugh out loud at your casual jokes, will be tolerant of your flaws, and will be there for you every time you need him. When the time comes, stand firmly by your side.

You will be like me and your father, get married without hesitation and live a plain and lively life. You have your value, you have your advantages, and you will also have your love. You must learn self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-love - this is what Li Huanying wants to tell Jia Xiaoling in this dream.

If you only look at it from Jia Xiaoling’s perspective, this is a story about a daughter who wants to save her mother.

But if you understand it from Li Huanying’s perspective, you will find that this is the last lesson a mother uses her remaining energy to teach her children.

This is also the reason why I cried so hard in the cinema that I couldn't help myself.

You may think that Jia Xiaoling’s experiences of “traveling back” are due to the deep love between sisters, but in fact they are all a mother’s deepest care for her children.

Jia Xiaoling thought that her efforts would make her mother happier, but in fact it was her mother who had been cooperating with her to make her happier.

"You think you already love your mother very much, but you never know that your mother loves you far more than you think."

It's not that Li Huanying doesn't want to recognize her daughter , trying to suppress the feeling of recognizing her daughter, and helping her for the last time, pretending not to recognize her, but in fact, she is already scratching her heart. This was probably the last time she could spend with her daughter in her life, but she still chose to leave it to her daughter's growth.

This is probably the most touching part of this story.