Complaining can only be a joke to others.

Sometimes, only when you encounter the waterloo of life and fall into the quagmire of life can you understand life more deeply, see the people around you more clearly, and see which are true friends and which are just nodding acquaintances.

Sister Xianglin's situation was a tragedy at first, but it turned into a joke several times. Is it because everyone is tired of complaining, or no one ever wants to feel the pain? So it's better to put away this sadness and self-pity and don't let jokes be staged over and over again.

Have you ever found that the older you get, the less you like to speak your mind, and you can't find a few people to chat with by rummaging through the entire address book? In the circle of friends, I no longer put emotions, but more considerate words. Gradually, we all began to live with masks, not the happy children. In life, we all learn to pretend and stop complaining about parting.

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Only when you are at the bottom of your life can you stop and reflect on the past, understand what is the obsession of the authorities, deeply understand the multiple realms of Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and understand what is the pressure of life. This is not shameful. If you can't solve the problems of survival and appetite, how can you develop and be ambitious!

Life is rarely smooth sailing, but more ups and downs, but what should I do when life is at a low ebb? Then there is the abyss of perdition. Take a step forward, maybe you can touch the sun, maybe you can bottom out!

But between these steps, can we keep pace and take our time?

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Sima Qian was arrested and imprisoned for defending the story of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, which gave him great physical and mental trauma. After he was released from prison, he served as secretary of the Secretariat. He endured humiliation and hardships, and worked hard to complete his historical records. He experienced 14 years and created China's first biographical general history "Historical Records" with his historical knowledge of "studying the relationship between heaven and man, learning from the changes of ancient and modern times and getting married". Cao Xueqin's family declined, and later he was robbed of his property because of a deficit. He made a living by selling calligraphy and painting and helping his friends, but he wrote A Dream of Red Mansions, which is immortal. Van Gogh was poor before his death, but he was not recognized by the world, but he left the world famous paintings such as Sunflower, which is priceless!

Suffering may destroy a person's life, but it cannot destroy his will. Times have changed, and it will become a valuable asset one day.

The ancients said: "If the sky falls on the Sri Lankan people, they must first suffer from their will, work hard on their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies and mess up their actions." Therefore, their perseverance has benefited them a lot. " Warn the world that only by enduring hardships can we enjoy prosperity!

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There is no denying that everyone has troubles, more or less. How to get rid of these obstacles? Complaining everywhere? Or solve it yourself?

It doesn't matter if you can find a tight-lipped friend and talk about depression. Although you can't solve the problem, at least your mood will be relieved and you won't be unhappy!

If no one can complain, you might as well write with your heart, keep a diary and tell yourself. You don't have to talk about pain to everyone. Many times your suffering is just a joke in the eyes of others, and you have no empathy. Instead of this, it is better to close the wound and heal itself.

Don't give up too early, always believe that the rainbow after the rain will be more beautiful and gorgeous, and the polished life will be more profound and wonderful!