Why don’t men like to go home, let alone communicate with their parents?

As a son, I never understood my father's love when I was a child, and I always felt that I did not enjoy his father's love. My father is old and has a cold temper all his life. I am still afraid of him.

My father was always cold, but he buried his love for his children deeply in his heart.

I remember learning a text like this when I was in primary school...

"The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop; the child wants to be raised but the kiss does not wait", When we are away from home because of studying, later because of work, or because of various reasons such as starting a family or raising children, we are unable to take time to visit our parents in our hometown, but we forget that our parents are getting older year by year.

It seems that there are always endless things to do in life. After pushing and pushing again and again, the time to support your parents also passes by. Who can truly understand Qiu Wuzi's sadness? A young man leaves home, but when he comes back as an old man, as soon as he steps into the house, he never sees his parents again! Missing the opportunity to support your parents is such a regret in life. How can you get them back after they pass away?

The Analects of Confucius says: "One must not know the age of one's parents." As parents grow older, they will have more and more inconveniences in their lives. At this time, we need to When taking care of you. I remember a woman who seldom came home because she was married away from home. Once when she came home, she found that her old mother was walking with a limp. After a quick look, I realized that my mother was too old to bend down to cut her toenails, which caused the nails to grow too long and become embedded in the flesh, causing bleeding and pus. When the daughter saw her mother's injured feet, she couldn't help but cry with sadness. How much her mother needed her care! So from then on, she came back to visit her mother once a week, soaking her feet and cutting her toenails.

When we are young, we need the care of our parents to grow up; but when our parents need our care when they are old, can we also stay with them and help them dress like they took care of us? Clothes, cover them with quilts, cut their nails, take them for a walk together...

Time flies. While we still have the opportunity to fulfill our filial piety, we should not wait any longer. Qiu Wuzi's regrets warn us. : Filial piety cannot wait!

My father was always cold, but he buried his love for his children deeply in his heart.

I hope that my father will be healthy. My father is alive and well. That is my son’s blessing!

Everything in the world has a cause and a result. As the saying goes, sow melons and reap beans.

Sooner or later, a son will have to be a father. He has already become a father. Only when a son respects his father can he set an example for his son. Only when he is old can he enjoy his son's filial piety. Don't think that among sisters, if you do too much for your parents, you are at a disadvantage. In fact, you are taking advantage of them. If you don’t believe it, look at what happens to those unfilial sons! If you are filial to your father, your son will be filial to you in the future! This is real retribution! ..

May all sons in the world be filial sons, and may all fathers be well-supported, safe and happy,,,,,,,,,,,,