What kind of psychology is it that your boyfriend blocks your circle of friends and then opens it to you?

Love, friendship and marriage, attention (WeChat WeChat official account): xueta23

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Friend:

"You know, Chai Yan's recent figure is great!"

"Her life must be very nourishing, and she probably has a good life."

"I really can't see it."

me:

"What do you mean?"

"Recently, she traveled to Sanya, and sent a group of photos that were super sexy. Didn't you see her circle of friends?

I really didn't see it. Maybe I was busy with work recently. I went back to her circle of friends! From the beginning to the end, there is no sign of the seaside or Sanya.

I still don't believe it. I grew up with her. How could she not let me see her? It's impossible to block me.

I asked those friends again to confirm whether she deleted this circle of friends.

the answer is all, no!

My mind tells me, have I done something wrong to offend her? No, I often praise her circle of friends, and occasionally comment, the content of the comments is also praise. Besides, I didn't do purchasing, asking people to buy things or anything.

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Later, I talked to my elder sister, and she said, What kind of person were you when you were young?

"Very practical, very quiet, not talkative, usually very reserved, very nice."

elder sister said, that's right, introverted, that's the problem!

but what does it matter?

"Let me ask you a question first. If so, what's your first reaction when you see these photos?"

"It's a little unacceptable." Say this sentence and I suddenly understand.

Actually, it's not that she doesn't regard you as a friend. She just feels that knowing you is not suitable for you to know at this stage.

She must also know that I played with her since I was a child, and I certainly couldn't accept her change when I was in high school. Even when I see this set of photos, I may suspect that the people I know have completely changed.

but even so, I will give her a compliment when she sends it. This is the change that we all have when the social circle starts to be different.

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If I were you, I would suddenly make some changes, which would definitely block some people.

the first reason: it may be to block people who will point fingers at your change behavior. It is impossible for everyone to have good manners and to consider the feelings of others.

this difference will lead you to send this group of photos, which can be seen by everyone. You will see both praise comments and questioning comments. If you can accept it, then there is no problem.

But most people find it hard to accept, so there is only one way that is most comfortable! Is to avoid and block people who are not suitable for seeing.

you can't say that the person who blocked you doesn't know you, he just knows you in the past.

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the second reason: you and he are just working partners. Because the nature of work and life is different. Many people don't like to confuse life with work. They usually spend most of their time in the office, which involves too many relationships and interests. Some people block their circle of friends from you. They just want to have a quiet life outside their work.

if you think he doesn't treat you as a friend, maybe this is true. But we don't have to feel lost, because people are like this, and you will inevitably do this.

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In both cases, don't ask why, and don't think about what you have offended him. If you are really offended, she will blacken you, instead of just shielding you from the circle of friends.

it's an extreme disgust that friends circle blacked you out. And shielding you may have her own reasons mixed with understanding your personality. Since this circle of friends has blocked you, if you put yourself in the other's shoes, you will think that this is actually a good practice for you.

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