What should I do if my son is bullied by his classmates?

Go to school, talk to the teacher, understand the whole story, and ask the teacher to help contact the parents. The apology is due. The warranty is guaranteed.

If a parent is unreasonable, just go over and give him a slap in the face and a warning.

That’s because the child is young and he really can’t solve it himself. The adults need to step in to solve the problem.

My child was beaten by a boy on the school bus in the first grade. At first I asked her to solve it on her own, but the child was beaten again without opening her mouth. I asked the person in charge of the school bus and the other parent to talk to each other and apologize. And promise it won't happen again. That day I asked him why he was beaten? He said my baby wouldn't listen to him. The grandparents of the boy's family laughed and said that all children are like this and it's okay to hit him with their hands. I asked him to apologize to my baby, but he wouldn't bite or speak. His parents kept apologizing to my daughter, but I didn't accept it. It’s okay not to apologize. I came back again and again and he said it was okay. I asked my daughter to beat them and catch even the broken ones. The last one was hit on the head with a thermos cup, so I took out the cup and let him hit him. His grandparents said no, and his parents asked him to apologize. He got so angry that he didn't speak, so I asked him to hit his head on the head, and his mother will be responsible for the consequences. He said "I'm sorry" angrily, but I didn't accept it. I had to be nice and angry, call him by this name, and bow and apologize! His family received another lesson and education. That’s it!

Next, I asked him, his parents, and the person in charge of the school bus to ensure that it would never happen again. If it happened again, I would settle the accounts with him even when I was not at work. If you can't control it, ask him to adjust his seat. They finally negotiated, and the next day I saw his baby sitting in the back seat of the school bus away from my baby. Never happened again.

Tell your child that you won’t cause trouble, but don’t be afraid if something happens. Your family will be your strong backing.

In the past, we always felt that school bullying was far away from us. In fact, it is all around us, and we have seen cases of school bullying happening from time to time. If your child is being bullied at school. Talk to the teacher first, see what the teacher's attitude is, ask the teacher to find those children, and bring the parents of those children together to solve the problem face to face. Apologize when you need to, write a letter of commitment, and if it doesn't happen next time, you must reprimand them severely to let those children and parents know that your family is not someone to be trifled with. If you continue to bully your children, then you have to be ruthless and find some strong relatives to scare those naughty children and rebel! If it is not stopped in time, those children will intensify their bullying of your children, thinking that your children are honest and can be bullied, leaving a lifelong shadow on them.

Such a thing! Show off your skills at a glance! Treat whoever you want! Logically speaking, school teachers and parents are both responsible! A student is often bullied by his classmates at school! Parents will definitely go to the school and teachers! But the truth is not as simple and perfect as we think! My child is often bullied at school! As a parent, it must be hard to feel. Whose child is not the flesh that falls off the body? How can you just let others bully you?

Some teachers and parents are really bad and irresponsible! Even if you go to him (her), it is still a bad habit to ignore them! And he laughs at you and your children as cowards and cowards! When my daughter was growing up, I taught her: We don’t bully anyone, but we must never be bullied by others! If someone bullies you, respond tooth for tooth, eye for eye. My daughter was sent to kindergarten when she was two years old. She is also the youngest child. We don’t have time to take care of her while we are running a business. I went to pick up the kids one evening! The aunt said that my child was bitten by another child, and I saw bruises and teeth marks on his neck! Although it hurts! There is nothing we can do! They are all ignorant children! Forget it, Auntie keeps saying nice things! On the way home, I asked my daughter if it hurt. My daughter couldn't speak at that time, so she got angry and said to her while walking: "You will bite him in the future too." In fact, I just said angry words! But a week later, my daughter really bit the child. When I picked up the child, the aunt stopped and said nothing. It seemed that her child had been bitten.

I said a lot of nice things but I didn’t give in! Why do I feel something is wrong? Then my anger came up and I gave my aunt a bad taste! Also strange? Auntie also became honest and said sorry to me and other nice words! I didn't tolerate her at all, and told her not to look at others' orders in the future! Be careful, if this happens again, I will never spare you. The principal of the kindergarten is a relative of mine, and my aunt doesn’t know about our relationship! The director is a Russian beauty, I call her sister! From then on, every time I saw my daughter off, as soon as I arrived at the door, this aunt would warmly call my daughter from afar: "Xiaoxue!" Here you go, auntie, give me a hug! It makes me quite embarrassed! That’s how people are!

When my daughter was in middle school, she was often bullied by a girl named "Big Sister"! I don’t know how many times you have blocked my daughter in a side station? Finally one day my daughter got so anxious that she took half a brick and slapped the "eldest sister". At that time, she was blind and honest. The whole school was shocked, and the teacher was really bad! Insinuations and satire on my daughter: Xiaoxue! You can do it! Most of the time, the eldest sister asked you to hit her with a brick, so cruel! After that, he scolded the elder sister again and said: The famous elder sister in our school is also like this. She is used to bullying others, isn't she? I finally met a ruthless person today, and I deserved it! What kind of teacher is this? Later, the school teacher called me and asked me to come! To be honest, that female teacher was really not that good, and she gave me a bad impression at all. At that time, I had the urge to kick her! Seeing that she was a woman, I didn't give her a good look. When she left, I said: What a ruined school! Isn’t the teacher something? I transferred my children to another school. Later, I transferred my daughter to a vocational school! Really, people are really different! The teacher in this school is really a good teacher who is responsible for the students! I call every day to tell them about my child’s study status! It really reassured and touched us!

I have heard a lot about the school over the years! There are also some schools and individual teachers with extremely bad character! Every parent sends their children to school and teachers with full hope! I hope you treat your students like your own children! But the reality is very disappointing! I always hear that students from a certain school got into fights and fatal incidents occurred! Why! No more talking, don’t complain if you don’t like it! Thanks!

Tell me the truth.

My nephew has been weak since he was a child, and his academic performance is not very good. The teacher doesn't like him, so the students bully him. There is a kid who bullies my nephew every day. My sister went to the teacher to no avail. She found this child's What the parents said was pretty good, but it didn't work, and I still got beaten every three days.

My sister told me to stop having my children beaten every day. I said it was not easy to handle, so leave it to me. I would arrive when the children were about to get out of school the next day. Waiting at the school gate, I saw the kid who was bullying my nephew being beaten up. Of course, I was sure that I wouldn't break it.

Just this time, no one dared to hit my nephew from now on. The teacher was scared. I told the teacher that you can call the police and I will wait. The teacher said that we can solve it ourselves and there is no need to call the police.

That little kid’s parents hid when they saw me. Do you know why? This means that those who are cowardly are afraid of being arrogant, those who are arrogant are afraid of being stunned, and those who are stunned are afraid of losing their lives.

Don’t say it’s inappropriate for adults to spank their children. Remember that if an adult is responsible and reasonable, his or her children will not bully others. If you encounter this kind of thing, go to your parents or teachers. If you bullshit him, if you can't control the situation, just beat him up. After beating him, it's only more effective than one move.

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As a girl, I have really fought back against this kind of thing. Don’t laugh at me, it was all during school.

When I was in the third grade of junior high school, my cousin was in the sixth grade in the same school. I did not go to the sixth grade. There was no such thing as sixth grade at that time. I was about 166cm tall, and I was in the sixth grade. There were about 160 male students. Three people were beating my brother in the class. I was passing by them and heard my cousin's voice crying and begging for mercy. I ran over quickly.

After arriving in the class, I walked directly to my cousin and asked his three male classmates to stand there and not move, otherwise I asked the boys from the third grade junior high school class to come over and beat them. The three guys were scared. Okay, I tried my best, and each of the three people was slapped twice, once in front and back, with the maximum strength, because I saw that the corners of my cousin's mouth were bleeding from them, and then I asked my cousin to get the wood. He asked the three of them to lie down on the table and hit each of them three times on the buttocks. They cried and screamed. They threatened that if anyone dared to touch my brother again, he would take the other boys in the class and hit him 30 times next time.

From then on, my cousin stood up in his class, and no one dared to bully him again.

There is no reason to treat such naughty children. Either you give their parents some money and let their parents take care of them at home, or you fight them yourself, or find a few more rivals. Their slightly older children fought over.

We are not passing on negative energy, this is a real problem. Parents of such children are generally jerks and unreasonable. You can only respond to violence with violence by being unreasonable or making a scene on campus.

Call the police!

Fight back. If you can’t fight back, you have to endure it until you are able to overcome it. This requires the child to be strong. My son was bullied until he was in the fourth grade of elementary school. Then one day he beat the bully and said The boy knelt down and begged for mercy, and no one dared to bully him again. Children must become stronger on their own. The world of boys is the law of the jungle. Otherwise you just have to endure it, but you have to learn to win the first time. Don't fight every day.

Regarding this bullying phenomenon, we must first find out the cause and then prescribe the right remedy.

First find the teacher to understand the cause and effect. Under normal circumstances, it can be understood clearly and can be used as circumstantial evidence based on the oral accounts of other students.

Take reasonable steps. If it is indeed six children who are bullying, it depends on how the teacher handles it. If the above phenomenon does not happen again after the teacher handles it, then the children should be taught how to protect themselves: not to cause trouble but not to be afraid of it, and to bully themselves in the face of evil behavior. If there is no way out, be brave enough to fight back. If the teacher's education is still ineffective and the child is still bullied, then the parents have to step forward. Don't forget to keep the evidence and have a private chat with the other parent's parents first. If the private chat doesn't work, take action on your own. But in the end, we still have to tell our children to face it bravely.

Let me give you an example. As a teacher, it may not be handled properly in theory, but it is effective. I once taught a student who often bullied a girl. Girls are too timid to fight, and even if they try to fight, they can't. The teacher also taught me many times, and the parents were helpless. After bullying a girl again, I asked him to stand in front of me, and the bullied girl kicked his butt from behind, as many times as he bullied her. (Of course, since he is a primary school student, the force is not strong, but it has a deterrent effect) and gives support to girls: if he bullies again in the future, this is how to protect yourself, and the teacher will not criticize you! Later, the boy never bullied the girl again.

Enroll your child in a winter vacation Sanda class. This is a great way to practice courage and speed. Do not think that Taekwondo is useless and can only keep fit and strong. Make sure that Sanda is really useful. You can’t find anyone who is useless. Keep looking. There will be junior high school, high school and university in the future. You can only do it if you are strong.