Education can't look beautiful. What does the "Little Red Flower Award" mean?

"It's for your own good, you know?" This is the most selfish and unreasonable thing in the world. There are always some parents and teachers who, according to their children's wishes and ideas, force their children to do things that they don't recognize and don't want to do.

In the movie "Looking Beautiful", Fang Qiangqiang, aged three or four, was forced to cut off his braid by his teacher because he said "for his own good". Facing the experience of the first collective life, Fang Qiangqiang was full of tension and anxiety. He tried to adapt to the kindergarten, study hard to listen to the teacher, obey the rules and make friends, but everything didn't seem to go well.

be afraid

"I don't want any little red flowers."

Because grandma went back to her hometown and her parents were busy at work, Fang Qiangqiang was sent to kindergarten by her father. Although Fang Qiangqiang cried himself hoarse, Dad left without looking back.

Fang Qiangqiang, a freshman in kindergarten, was "targeted" by Miss Li. Teacher Li, who was very kind when playing games, stared at Fang Qiangqiang gloomily and tugged at Fang Qiangqiang's pigtail and said, "Come, let me see your pigtail. Who left it to you? " Seemingly gentle tone, but in the other side of the gun did the most cruel thing-cut off his braid with scissors.

Fang Qiangqiang's unsettled emotions began to get excited again, and she ran away in tears. Facing the resistance and escape of the other guns, Miss Li cleverly called on all the children to "catch" Fang Qiangqiang for themselves, and scolded, "I told you, it would be clean and there would be no lice. This is for your own good ... "

"For your own good" is probably the most common reason for every adult to resist children. In the face of crying children, adults' methods always seem to be just inducements. Teacher Tang took out a small red flower to coax him, and a small red flower symbolizing progress and glory was violently thrown to the ground. And the little girl on the side quickly picked it up and wiped it clean.

At this time, Fang Qiangqiang didn't know the real meaning of Little Red Flower.

observe

"Why don't I have little red flowers?"

School is not as casual as home. You can do whatever you want. At school, Fang Qiangqiang must first learn how to express himself.

In order to manage the students well, the kindergarten designed a set of small red flowers, that is, don't wet the bed, dress yourself, defecate in the morning, wash your hands consciously before meals, and sleep without talking. If you do one of these five things, you can get a small red flower, and a child who gets five small red flowers for seven days in a row can be a class leader.

In addition, kindergartens have a set of strict rules and regulations.

ante cibum

Before dinner, the children lined up to wipe their hands and raised their hands above their heads.

mealtime

While eating, Mr. Li began to preach: "Raise your right hand with rice and straighten your palm;" Raise the left hand holding the soup and make a fist. Don't talk while eating. "A child wanted to go to the toilet and was scolded by Miss Li, who gave him a small red flower.

go on foot

In kindergarten, you should walk in an orderly way. After you line up, you need to pull the rope and walk at the same pace and speed.

Before going to bed

Children need to undress themselves before going to bed. On the other side, Miss Li is twisting a towel to wipe the child's ass. She whistled and gave a blow job to a child.

Get up in the morning.

In the morning, with teacher Li's whistle, the children must get up and get dressed. If there are disobedient children, Miss Li will threaten them with small red flowers.

Go to the toilet on time

Kindergartens also have to "go through" the uncontrollable thing of going to the toilet. Every morning, under teacher Li's "order", all the children have to go to the toilet. While holding his chest in his hands, Mr. Li warned the children about the benefits of going to the toilet in the morning, and kept wandering around. On the other hand, Mr. Tang takes a notebook to record the time, and children who go to the toilet quickly will be praised.

As freshmen, Mr. Tang and Mr. Li seem to be lenient with each other's guns, washing his hands and pulling him to walk alone, bask in the quilt.

After a day and a night's kindergarten life, although Fang Qiangqiang still doesn't know what a little red flower is, he can feel it more or less. Only by getting a small red flower can he get the praise of the teacher and the recognition of the children. So, when other children came out of the toilet to wash their hands, leaving him alone, they asked Mr. Li timidly, "Will you buckle my little red flower?"

In class, Mr. Tang announced the number of small red flowers that everyone got every day in front of the whole class. Seeing that other children have small red flowers and none of them have square guns, he is particularly unconvinced: "Why don't I have small red flowers?"

Teacher Tang replied, "Because you wet the bed again last night, you didn't wear your own clothes in the morning and didn't consciously wash your hands after going to the toilet." After pointing out the reason why Fang Qiangqiang didn't get a little red flower, she encouraged Fang Qiangqiang to reward one if she behaved well tomorrow. But remember to raise your hand before the next question, and don't stand up by yourself.

After getting the answer, she looked at the red flower column on her desk and fantasized that she had one or two little red flowers, even as many as the best little girl in the class. After everyone left the classroom, he went to the red flower column alone and muttered, "I want five little red flowers."

Fang Qiangqiang began to change, taking classes seriously and learning nursery rhymes. But it seems that Mr. Li has never liked him, and he still uses him as a negative teaching material to educate his children, and at the same time, let me demonstrate.

When Yu and he took off their clothes, they were caught in the sleeves. Teacher Li's reaction to them is completely different. Miss Li didn't say anything about Qian Qian. She sarcastically said, "You just want to waste your time. No one will help you. When will you come down after practice? " All the children sat together and looked at Fang Qiangqiang, who was embarrassed in the center of Taiwan, like a joke.

Fang Qiangqiang couldn't take off his last dress, sobbing and saying, "I started to shit this morning, and I washed my hands myself. Why ... why don't I have a little red flower? "

confused

Small red flowers are so easy to handle?

Fang Qiangqiang made great efforts for Xiao Honghua, changed various personal habits, carefully defecated and washed his hands at the prescribed time, but he never got Xiao Honghua.

One day, Fang Qiangqiang saw a little red flower outside the house. After checking that there was no one around, he quickly picked it up and ran away quickly. This little red flower that everyone wants can't be obtained after so long efforts. He cherished it very much, carefully wrapped it in a handkerchief and put it in his pocket.

Seeing that Chen Nanyan and Chen Beiyan were detained for fighting, Fang Qiangqiang sincerely said to Chen Nanyan, "Didn't Miss Li detain your little red flower? I want to give this to you. " Chen Nanyan not only didn't appreciate it, but also questioned whether she stole it from Teacher Li and deliberately threw the little red flower on the ground. She only wants the little red flowers from the teacher, not the ones she picked up on the ground.

Fang Qiangqiang had to pick it up and repackage it. In the yard, all the children are playing games happily, and he is always watching by himself.

On this day, his classmate Wang's father came to meet him. Teacher Li said with a straight face that there were still two hours to pick up the children, and he turned to do his own thing. When told by the director that this was the deputy director of the logistics department, Mr. Li changed his attitude 180 degrees and quickly put down his things to say hello. Other teachers also leaned in to praise Wang for being sensible.

The vice minister went to the safflower column and found that his son didn't have many small red flowers. He gently reprimanded his son. He also found that there was no little red flower in Fang Qiangqiang, so he said in a leading tone that he should strengthen his help to the child.

Teacher Li quickly said that today's little red flower has not been evaluated, and Wang has it. Fang Qiangqiang quietly looked at the little red flower he had worked so hard to get before, because his uncle's words were easily posted.

Fang Qiangqiang is unhappy in kindergarten. He is still lonely. He tried to bribe Chen Nanyan with the little red flowers he found and make friends with Chen Beiyan with the pen his father gave him, but failed. He also tried to join the noisy boys, but wherever he went, the boys dispersed in a hubbub. Seeing a girl holding a doll will hesitate to join, or the same experience.

resist

Escaped from kindergarten,

You don't have to suffer from little red flowers anymore.

After all kinds of efforts were not recognized, Fang Qiangqiang's bright hopes were dashed. He stopped trying to pursue the little red flower and began to resist openly, even "uprising" with the children.

In class, Miss Li is imitating animals. Fang Qiangqiang whispered to Chen Beiyan, "Miss Li has become a monster. And maybe you have been eaten by teacher Li now. " In their eyes, Miss Li is no longer a teacher, but a wolf that eats children.

When taking a bath, Fang Qiangqiang will touch other people's butts everywhere to find their tails. The girls began to pass it around and check each other, and so on. Before long, all the children in kindergarten knew about it.

Under the leadership of Fang Qiangqiang, the children organized a "round-up" action against Miss Li. They took ropes tied with luggage and went in through two doors in two batches, surrounding Miss Li's bed. But children are children after all. As soon as Mr. Li sat up, the children were frightened into a mess. The incident was accompanied by the cry that AG, the scapegoat, was taken away.

Fang Qiangqiang has completely changed, no longer tamed, causing trouble everywhere. He and other children grabbed guns, and after grabbing them, he went to the girls who were watching and drove them away. Take the initiative to find the naughty king in the class to fight; Push the little girl; Knock down the toys that others have worked so hard to build for a long time. His rebellion will never be covered up again, even if the teacher is present.

He refuted the teacher's "run when you see a wolf in the future" and thought that if you see a wolf, you will be killed. After ganging up with two other boys to bully the little girl in the class, Fang Qiangqiang refused to apologize and even whispered curses at the wall.

Teacher Li and Teacher Tang realized that the biggest punishment for someone like the other gun is to isolate him and not give him an unscrupulous stage. Fang Qiangqiang is grounded. Fang Qiangqiang never admitted his mistake, but also yelled at the director: "I don't want to go to kindergarten, I want to go to school!" But when the director said that kindergarten was the most carefree time, he couldn't come back if he wanted to. Fang Qiangqiang eyes wide open, puzzled.

After several days of confinement, Fang Qiangqiang finally returned to the team. He secretly hit people behind the teacher, deliberately left the team and shouted at everyone: "Go tell the teacher that I left the team!" " But everyone turned a blind eye, and no one cared about him anymore.

Finally, he ran out of the kindergarten in despair, thinking that if he escaped from the kindergarten, he wouldn't have to suffer from Xiaohong. He froze when the PLA uncles walked by him neatly and everyone had a big red flower pinned to their chest.

Education must not look beautiful.

At the end of the film, Fang Qiangqiang came to the root of the city wall alone, told the explorer to call his name, and fell asleep alone against a big stone. Maybe at this time, he found what he wanted-to be noticed by others.

First of all, there is nothing wrong with the teacher's starting point in the film, but under the uniform and even militarized education, the students' personality cannot develop normally. Teachers should learn to accept students and give them more space and opportunities to explore, instead of being "lecturers" or "informants" to teach based on what children should learn.

Secondly, the relationship between teachers and students is not antagonistic. In the film, Miss Li seems to be a condescending leader. She often teaches students by preaching and exhorting, but she never communicates with students, never gets along with them on an equal footing, and never finds the advantages of Fang Qiangqiang. In the new era, teachers, especially kindergarten teachers, should fully respect children's personality and their psychological needs.

Finally, the stereotyped educational model is obviously ignorant. Even though it was the educational model decades ago, it is inevitable that some kindergartens still have its shadow. Especially in today's advocacy of happy education and appreciation education, rewards and punishments like "Little Red Flower" came into being and became the image representative of the reward and punishment mechanism in kindergartens. However, "Little Red Flower" has also caused some educational problems such as "weak reward" and unfair reward. All these need to be taken as a warning by current schools and teachers. Education can't just look beautiful.