/kloc-What should I do if my 0/3-year-old son falls in love?

First of all, we should look at this problem correctly. 13 years old is not young, this situation should be normal. Sooner or later, you have to face it. Angry quarreling can't solve the problem, it will only intensify the contradiction.

Secondly, you should respect your child and communicate with him calmly. The reason why you are angry is that you can't solve the problem in a hurry and get him back on track. But do you think you were beaten and scolded by adults when you were a child? Therefore, the main purpose is to solve problems, communication is the best way to solve problems, and quarreling and getting angry will only intensify contradictions and hurt children.

Third, the focus of communication:

1 shows a clear attitude, apologizes to the children first, and shows sincerity in solving problems and communicating.

2 Explain the harm of puppy love, children should focus on their studies.

If you don't object to normal students, you can encourage each other to learn, but you can't fall in love early.

4 timely adolescent education and sex education, we should pay attention to methods, not too blunt. Whose youth is not confused, and you never had a crush on someone when you were a teenager? Never had a vague feeling? This is caused by genes, and the laws of nature are insurmountable. Why do you have to repeat the same mistake after all? The more you forbid something, the more he wants to do it. So grooming is more effective than hitting.

If not, communicate sincerely with the woman's parents, organize two parties regularly, and go to the library or other learning activities together, so that the two can encourage each other to learn. It is best to set a small goal, such as being admitted to a key high school, being admitted to a key university together, and falling in love at the university. It is not too much to control this puppy love reasonably and turn it into the driving force of active learning.

You have come from adolescence yourself. Don't be too hasty, simple and rude, and let your child get hurt or even be too stressed to make excessive behavior.

Both boys and girls should be treated as adults after the age of ten. Care is more important than lessons, and education is more important than money.

Touch it with your hands, and more than twenty minutes have passed before you know it. Please adopt it if it is useful.

Above, I hope I can help you. You can contact me if you have any questions.