What kind of woman can't marry?

If it is Xiaoke, Xiaoke may think that the first is a woman you can't afford, and the second is a girl who loves but is not you.

The first kind of woman you can't afford, this kind of woman may not lose her family or worship money, but the living standards of the two of you may be far apart. For example, you may think it is good to eat in a small restaurant. All the places she may have been are high-end restaurants.

There is a saying that thrift is easy, but it is difficult. If you drink two yuan a bottle of mineral water, she may drink tens of thousands of bottles of red wine, and your living standards will be different. Even if you love each other very much, she will be willing to stay with you for you, whether you can afford her or not. If we really get married together, it will probably be a tragedy, because her luxurious life has been cultivated since childhood, and it is impossible to change much.

For example, you may not be able to afford a house, rent a single room, and the kitchen and toilet are all used, and she may have grown up in a villa, so even though she loves you very much at this time, after the initial passion and curiosity, she will be dissatisfied with everything in your life. She is used to the life of the rich, and it is really hard to accept living in poverty with you, but in the small contradiction of your life, she is constantly fighting.

Xiaoke has a neighbor. A girl is an ordinary family in the city. She married a family with four boys in the country. Now their married life is crumbling. At first, the girl has never been to the countryside. Maybe she has been to some suburban villages. She doesn't know the real countryside. She loved her husband so much that they finally got married despite her parents' objections. Boys are technical engineers in a factory, and their salary is quite high in the eyes of rural people, but it is just enough for girls.

They have contradictions when choosing a hospital to have children. Girls think it's a big deal to have a baby, so it's not cheap to find a hospital with better environment and better service to have a baby. The boy thinks that what every woman will experience when she gives birth to a child is a trivial matter in his view, as long as she finds a county-level hospital. In the end, they had a conflict because they chose a hospital. Later, because of children's parenting problems, girls like to use branded goods for their children, and diapers should be the best, while boys think that as long as they are used by ordinary families.

This kind of consumption concern makes them often quarrel. So now they have been arguing until they are separated.

The second kind of girl can't get married because there is a person in her heart who can't let go, so she probably won't live well with you. She won't cherish your efforts and care about you. Both love and marriage need two people to maintain. If you are the only one working hard in this love, it will be very hard. So Xiaoke thinks that others can marry or not (Xiaoke feels afraid of being cuckolded).