Talk about the mother's mood when the child is sick (the mother needs comfort most)

My friend's son fell ill and had a fever for several days, which seriously affected the relationship between husband and wife and mother-in-law.

At the beginning of the fever, the child's mental state was not bad, but she coughed a little, and she didn't care too much. The child should eat and drink.

This lasted for a day or two, and grandma began to worry. When she saw the child, she said that the child was too poor and so ill that she didn't give the child an injection. She looks very uncomfortable, not to mention the sick child.

Finally, because grandma said that the child's illness was particularly serious, it was another pleading expression.

My husband saw this scene and said, "If you die, let the child die at her hands."

At that time, she was giving medicine to her children, and she was very wronged at first. Being told by my husband is really a feeling of lovelessness.

When the child is ill, it is obviously her greatest fear. As a result, she went to her husband and grandmother, but she became a murderer, a murderer who found fault with her children.

Do you feel wronged? Are you sad? Are you sad?

I have been on tenterhooks since my child was ill, and I dare not have any mood swings, just to reassure my child and let him know that illness is not a big deal.

The saddest thing is the sentence added by her husband: "If the child is hospitalized tonight, we will divorce."

At that moment, her heart was mixed.

It turned out that she always thought that an indestructible marriage was so fragile.

She said that she didn't need much help from her father when her child was ill, but she didn't expect that her husband told her about the divorce when she needed comfort most.

That act of kindness made her feel cold again in summer. There's nothing better.

There is no perfect time for the growth of new life.

Children's illness is a natural law of growth, and it has little to do with whether they take good care of their children.

It is common for children to get sick.

Every novice mother should have had this experience:

One is a new life, which appears in its own world. In addition to surprise, it is cautious, afraid of children's problems. I am particularly worried about the child's illness.

One day, because of negligence, or weather changes, or viral and bacterial infections, the child became ill. Mom is anxious like an ant on hot bricks.

Self-reproach, worry, and distressed feelings bombarded my mother's anxious heart in turn.

If at this time, the husband who has always trusted has no intention to say a reproachful language, or shows carelessness, it will make her emotional collapse.

I saw a video a long time ago. The general content is that when my mother took care of the child, she accidentally let the child burn her finger.

In the hospital lobby, her mother-in-law apologized to her husband and mother-in-law, punched and kicked her, and swore.

In just a few minutes, dad held the child in his arms with distress. The mother-in-law has been pushing her mother and pushed her to the ground several times.

My mother has been crying, apologizing and blaming herself, and her tone is extremely humble.

Mother-in-law confidently said to her:

Your son is my grandson, my grandson and my son are mine. If you go back, you will get a divorce. Go back to your hometown.

I have never understood that when a child is sick, the mother who needs comfort most has to face more family relationships.

In fact, it is not terrible for children to get sick. What is really terrible is that the mother finds herself alone-the child is sick, and she has not slept for 24 hours in exchange for not comfort, but blame, blame and even divorce.

The mother took her son to bed.

My son is ill or my daughter is ill. When they feel sick, they cling to me very much.

I will cry, I will be emotional, I will clamor for a hug, and I will always seek comfort.

I remember my son caught a cold for the first time, when he was only three months old.

Cough, fever and stuffy nose make me particularly uneasy at night. Seeing his uncomfortable appearance made my heart even worse. Helpless, I held him and shed countless tears.

In order to comfort him and make him comfortable, I sat in bed for several days and hugged him to sleep. Sometimes, in order to make him sleep more peacefully, I will choose to let him sleep with milk.

What kind of feeling is that?

I feel my hands are not my own, my waist is not my own, and my whole body is not my own. It's really hard to feel the tingling caused by excessive breast suction.

After the child recovered, I talked with my husband on a business trip about this life-and-death test. I want to hear a few words of comfort. He said airily:

Isn't the baby cured?

You don't have to work, you can also take care of your children full time. I really admire you.

At that moment, the impact of his words on me was simply the second injury in the rest of my life.

Stealing chickens and not eating rice should mean this.

When a child is ill, sometimes it seems to others that doing too much is not a good thing, but a lot of mistakes. What is even more frightening is that my husband and mother-in-law have always emphasized the fact that the child is sick in front of the child.

Being sick is actually a process that a complete life must go through.

When a child is ill, it is usually the mother who suffers the most. Physically, I was tossed by my child, and when I was highly nervous, I was tossed by my husband and mother-in-law.

At this time, having a husband who will comfort himself is the warmest moment in life.

There is a very inspirational saying: women are weak and mothers are just.

Many times, women are really strong after becoming mothers, and what makes mothers stronger is that their children are sick.

The mother is more anxious than anyone when the child is ill. So she's the one who really needs comfort.

Comfort is a good medicine for impatience.

Although every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity, it is really difficult for a mother to heal when she is traumatized at this time.

It takes only one sentence to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person, so a gentle attitude is really a great comfort to an anxious and fearful heart.

Why can't adults show too much pity, anxiety and worry when their children are sick?

The philosopher John Locke said a passage, which I think is a good answer:

Don't pity your children every time you see them suffer a little, or let them pity themselves.

We should try our best to help and comfort them at this time, but we must never pity them.

Because pity will make their psychology fragile, and they can't support it with a little minor injury. In this way, they are more immersed in the injured part, and the injury is more extensive.

When a child is sick, it is a great worry for the mother, so the mother should be comforted the most, and the gentle language of the father is the most effective comfort.