I found myself a spare tire. She's in love. I deleted my number and dropped my contact, and she began to ignore it, but I still miss her.

It's funny to say that men are spare tires, no matter what your intention is. Let me tell you a story.

There used to be a big brother in my company, who was very nice and popular. Many girls chased him, but he didn't move. Later, a woman came to our company, which is actually a very nice girl. She may be a little interested in him, too. He told us that he really liked her, but he felt that he could not give her the happiness she wanted. He is worried that the woman will meet the wrong person. Then this idiot told her that he would be a spare tire until she found the right person. Guess what? The woman said everywhere in our unit that her big brother was willing to make a spare tire for her, which made a large group of colleagues see his jokes and lost their reputation. Moreover, the girls who chased him in the unit were very annoyed and the relationship was very tense.

Although this matter has been going on for several years, the brothers all feel ashamed of what this SB has done. Until he got married, as long as he made us unhappy, we took it out and disgusted him. Fortunately, his current wife doesn't mind this matter, but just smiles. If she were my wife, she would have to abolish me.

Therefore, it is not a bad thing for a man to be kind. If he meets a woman who doesn't understand him, don't be busy, let alone live so humble.

If you love her, get along well. If you can't get along, it means there is no such fate. She's with someone else, which means she doesn't love you anymore, so why do you care so much about her?