Is it a joke to have no money to go home for the New Year?

So you just have no money and can't do anything, right? First of all, going home for the New Year and looking for a girlfriend are two different things. Go home for the Spring Festival first. Giving money to parents is a trivial matter. Maybe he is unhappy, but he won't blame you. Coming back is the greatest happiness. You may not understand, but, really: so.

No money to find a girlfriend, no one can help you. As long as you can bear hardships and work hard, there is no one who can't make money. It is impossible not to find a girlfriend.

Aren't all the people worse than you married and have children?

Think about how your parents got here.