What do you mean, "I can't eat four dishes in my life"?

I think the most cruel sentence is "I can't eat four dishes in my life". This is an online buzzword, which has two meanings, but both of them are insinuations, that is, we swear without dirty words, and we can only hear them when others have disputes. You can also understand it as using scenes. Usually, we don't use such vicious language to call names. Only those who are careless and vicious will be called names. Life is like this.

The four dishes in the first meaning refer to the full moon dish when alive, the wedding dish when getting married, the parting dish of Xie Shifu, and the tribute dish when paying homage.

The first course, the wedding banquet, means that you can't marry or get married, which means incompetence.

The second course is full moon wine. If you have no children or can't have children, it means extinction.

The third course is the funeral. No one cares about you the day you die, which means no one will die.

The fourth sacrifice, no one worships you after death.

A person is unmarried all his life and has no one to worship after his death. The so-called desolation and bitterness killed people in a simple sentence.

The second layer means that a person has been poor all his life, and his living standard will not allow him to eat more than three dishes at a time. It is popular in northern China, especially in Northeast China such as Heilongjiang, Jilin and Liaoning.

Because northerners pay attention to eating, the general standard is four dishes and one soup. Four dishes include two meat dishes, one large and one small, plus two vegetarian dishes. Saying that you can't eat four dishes is obviously a mockery of poverty, and it also means that you will never be promoted to a higher position.

The earliest source of this word is the northeast dirty words, but what really made this stalk popular on the Internet was that a man in Inner Mongolia had a language conflict with the staff at the express delivery point when he went to get it, and then he was scolded by the staff at the express delivery point for not eating four dishes for a lifetime. He was very angry. The next day, the man ordered four dishes at the door of the express delivery point for eating and broadcasting, which caused a large number of people to watch and let more and more people know the meaning of the word.

I can't eat four dishes in my life as a satire, which reflects the slang elements in common sayings. However, whether it is hating mud to help the wall or humiliating poverty, it is obviously discriminatory. Therefore, jokes are measured and words are measured. Not all jokes can be made. You think it's nothing, but the people who listen may turn against each other, so people who talk like this have to stay away from each other.