A joke about boyfriend's low emotional intelligence.

There is a saying like this:? IQ determines your lower limit, EQ determines your upper limit, and speaking comfort determines the height you can reach. ? I couldn't agree more. The most intuitive expression of a person's emotional intelligence is speaking.

People with high emotional intelligence can make people feel relaxed and happy when they speak physically, while people with low emotional intelligence can't help but feel disgusted when they speak carelessly. This is how men and women get along.

When you are with a man with high emotional intelligence, you will find it easy to communicate with him, and you can properly solve contradictions when you encounter them. But if you meet a man with low emotional intelligence, it's really impossible to kill someone in less than two sentences. Generally speaking, the less emotional intelligence a man has, the more he loves to say these three words to women.

You don't understand. It's no use telling you.

A man who can say this sentence often has little skill but a big tone. They are usually extremely conceited, always obsessed with self-confidence and living in their own world.

There is a contempt for women in their bones. Although she doesn't show much at ordinary times, once she has a conflict of opinion with women, she will obviously show disdain.

Especially at home, they will take it for granted that they are family authority, and everything they say is correct and absolutely irrefutable.

If the wife asks a little question, they will immediately accuse each other angrily? Know nothing? And will add contemptuously? I told you for nothing? To show that you don't even want to explain, because you are not qualified to question.

They are arrogant, opinionated, old-fashioned, impatient and extremely difficult to communicate. Living with such a man is a woman's nightmare.

You women know that spending money is not killing you.

Some men don't feel bad about spending money on their own, and they don't frown when they buy this or that. But at the sight of a woman spending money, I feel heartache and ache all over, trying to stop her from spending money.

In their view, men have to buy things. They are all necessary expenses and cannot be saved. But women buy things on impulse, waste money and just don't live.

Let's not talk about how wonderful this double-standard idea is. To say the least, even if you really want to discourage women from spending less, you can't talk like this. It takes a low eq to say such disgusting things.

Women are not unreasonable. Sometimes if you really feel that life is hard, just calm down and talk it over, put facts and make sense, and make it clear that no one will blame you.

But you spend a lot of money yourself, but you can't bear to spend it on women. You can't talk, and you are always criticizing women for wasting. You can't live. Who will buy your account? This man with low emotional intelligence can only be said to be a wonderful flower among wonderful flowers.

It's all my fault, okay?

This is what many men love to say when they quarrel and have contradictions. It sounds like a confession, but the tone reveals impatience and disgust.

Many times, men and women often have diametrically opposite attitudes towards the same thing. For example, in a quarrel, what women want most is a man's attitude, and what men want most is to make up quickly.

But there are always many men with bad attitudes, either trying to avoid them or denying them. In short, they refused to face the problem with sincerity.

When I got to the back, I felt that there was really no way to justify myself, so I took out a broken attitude and said that it was all my fault. In the final analysis, it is not that he really realizes the problem, nor that he wants to solve it. He just wants to get rid of himself early.

However, the more men have this attitude, the more women will feel sad and angry. When people communicate with each other, they should not only consider their own comfort, but also consider each other's feelings. Especially between husband and wife, living together all day, we should pay more attention to discretion, and we should not talk nonsense just because we are close.

Many times, the closer the relationship, the more hurtful the words. I hope every woman can keep her eyes open and stay away from men with low emotional intelligence who are particularly hurtful.