After four marriages, the wife was beautiful, and at the age of 58, she became a "wife slave". Life in Xu Yajun is wonderful.

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Xu Yajun, a 22-year-old young man who won the Golden Eagle as an emperor, is a name that many people are not familiar with.

But when it comes to "the public security bureau chief Qi Tongwei", everyone will definitely remember his face.

In 20 17, Xu Yajun, who was over 50 years old, became famous again for his role in in the name of people. Although he is a villain, this kind of courage and the charm of a mature uncle have successfully won him a wave of fans.

In the play, he became a man with the help of his wife. After the plan was successful, he dumped his good wife and married another wife.

However, in reality, Xu Yajun's emotions are more complicated than in the play.

Xu Yajun, male, 1964, from Handan, Hebei.

Because of work, parents had to take their son to live in Beijing compound.

Growing up, Xu Yajun's knife-shaped eyebrows always attract girls' admiring eyes wherever she goes.

Until 1 1 years old, Xu Yajun, who successfully turned into a handsome guy, finally appeared in the first film in his life: Youth is like fire. Since then, I have been out of control and fell in love with the profession of actors.

When parents saw that their child liked it, they decided to let him sign up for Beijing Opera.

However, it was this decision that changed Xu Yajun's life.

/kloc-at the age of 0/3, he was successfully admitted to the children's performance class of the Central Academy of Drama, and became classmates with Cai Guoqing, sleeping in bunk beds.

Enthusiastic, he often helped Cai Guoqing solve the difficulties in life. After a while, they established a profound friendship.

Today, this feeling has never changed.

From 65438 to 0980, after graduating from the Central Academy of Drama, Xu Yajun was assigned to China Children's Art Theatre.

At that time, he was not proud of his excellent foundation, but honestly honed his acting skills. Soon after, Xu Yajun changed from a walk-on actor without lines to an excellent pillar in all aspects of the theater.

Not only did I get a raise, but I also had an opportunity to break out.

1984 TV series "Looking for the World to Come Back" started shooting. The director deliberately found Xu Yajun and asked him to play Xie Yue, who was cold, cool and rebellious.

Also because of this play, Xu Yajun was punished by the theater and could not accept any scripts for three years.

This news is undoubtedly a painful blow to an actor.

The mall is frustrated and the love field is proud.

Xu Yajun, who can't perform daily decadence, has a melancholy masculinity in her eyes, which suddenly attracts the attention of Huang Jianping, a girl in the same theater.

Under her ardent pursuit, Xu Yajun, who was at a low ebb, quickly surrendered and quickly confirmed her marriage.

After marriage, we supported and encouraged each other and had a sweet time. However, the good times did not last long, and the arrival of a bad news broke the quiet life of the two.

Shortly after the marriage, Huang Jianping was found to be seriously ill, and eventually passed away due to incurable treatment.

This fact has dealt a great blow to Xu Yajun, which has just come out of the trough. He often sleeps and wakes up crying at night, and the whole person has lost weight.

Perhaps he felt sorry for him. Zhang Xi, an actor in the same theater, took special care of him during that time and helped him out of the trough of his life.

After a long time together, Xu Yajun developed feelings for this considerate girl, and soon they registered to get married.

I was quite happy at first, but with the good news, the relationship between the two came to an end.

1986, after "Looking for the Return of the World" was broadcast, Xu Yajun became famous overnight as Xie Yue and won the honor of "Golden Eagle Award as Emperor".

That year, posters of Xu Yajun were plastered all over the streets of Beijing.

As more and more jobs come to you, Xu Yajun spends less and less time with Zhang Xi.

Besides, they haven't been married for a long time and don't have a son and a half. Frictions and trifles in life gradually reduce their initial sweetness.

It was not until 1995 that Xu Yajun, 3 1 year-old, met He Qing, the "classical first beauty", and their relationship was completely broken.

Although there is no emotional scene between them in the play, both of them are fascinated by each other's charm. There is no windtight wall in the world, and before long, the scandal between them spread.

In order to be with his beloved, he decided to divorce his current wife and marry He Qing to go home.

Zhang Xi loves this man too much.

In order to keep him, she used the most stupid method, crying and hanging herself. I almost had a heart attack because of emotional excitement and passed away.

But Xu Yajun, who was determined to get a divorce, was unmoved. Seeing this scene, Zhang Xi knew that their fate was over, but he agreed to his request.

And He Qing had a boyfriend at that time. She has lived with actress Wei Liu for five years, and it's time to talk about marriage.

However, for the sake of true love, she insisted on breaking up with Wei Liu.

At that time, Xu Yajun was labeled as "unfaithful to feelings" and He Qing was labeled as "a bad woman who destroyed other people's families".

After many difficulties and rumors, the two finally registered to get married.

In 200 1 year, they gave birth to their first child: Xu He.

The arrival of the child made Xu Yajun promise to He Qing more than once: Marrying you is the greatest happiness in my life.

However, it was not long before he was hit in the face by this sentence.

When they were in love, they had an affair and an affair. However, the married rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea have caused various contradictions between the two.

In the end, this unpopular marriage ended completely in 2003, and the son was raised by Xu Yajun.

Regarding this marriage, He Qing once said: He wants me to take care of the children at home, but I like acting too much to give up my career.

Maybe this is the key to their divorce.

After three failed marriages, Xu Yajun, 39, has no intention of finding another job. He devoted himself to studying acting and wanted to shine in his career.

Inadvertently, an accident made him know his present wife, cutie.

The first time they met was when they were filming the TV series "Days Together".

At that time, Xu Yajun was already a senior in the entertainment circle, and Zhang Shu was just a newcomer. So she has great respect for him. She often asks Xu Yajun some questions about performance.

In the long run, the two gradually became familiar with each other.

By chance, cutie discovered that Xu Yajun actually likes to play golf.

Two people who have the same language as * * * suddenly started to talk.

In fact, at first, Xu Yajun didn't like this sport either. It takes him half a day to hit a shot. He is a hothead. He prefers playing football to golf.

Unfortunately, however, a game broke his leg unexpectedly, so the ball couldn't be kicked any more. It happened that the star golf team was recruiting people, so I was in the mood to participate.

At that time, he thought: it's good to learn, and it will come in handy to shoot golf-related plays in the future.

With the mentality of giving it a try, Xu Yajun took part in the first activity of the team.

He clearly remembers that the first time he played the driving range, he took a glove with a missing finger and a No.7 iron from a friend.

Under the guidance of the coach, he played 50 balls, and since then he has formed an indissoluble bond with golf.

Compared with Xu Yajun's superb technology, Zhang Shu is just a novice. She plays a few more strokes on each hole than others, but the ball flies around and just can't hit the green.

In order to encourage Zhang Shu to play ball, Xu Yajun specially formulated attractive rules. Soon, under his guidance, Zhang Shu's technology made rapid progress.

It is the interaction while playing that makes Zhang Shu feel that Xu Yajun is not as "playboy" as outsiders say.

Give everything at work and take care of everything in life. How can a girl who has just stepped into society in her twenties resist the charm of a mature man?

Before long, cutie fell into each other's gentle hometown.

Xu Yajun also gradually opened her heart to this energetic girl. Although I know I don't deserve her, I still can't help but want to be kind to her and take care of her more.

However, it turns out that when love comes, no one can stop it.

After three years of getting along, the two people understood each other's ideas and slowly came together. However, just as they were about to talk about marriage, they met with obstacles.

Uncle Zhang's parents resolutely opposed it, and his daughter married an old man who had been married three times and had a son. However, their parents can't cope with their daughter's indecision.

When the old man saw their firm attitude, he couldn't persuade them and didn't mean to object.

In the witness of both families, Zhang Shu finally married this man 12 years older than her in 2008, but it didn't end.

After getting married, the first question they have to face is who will quit his job to take care of his family.

Judging from the situation at that time, Xu Yajun's acting career was in full swing, and his wife's development had just begun. So Zhang Shu gave up his career and became a full-time wife with peace of mind.

I'm worried about the daily necessities at home, and I have to take care of my stepson Xu He.

Although Xu He is very unfriendly to her, she is always reluctant to call her mother.

But it's enough for uncle Zhang to open his mouth and call aunt. After all, everything will change for a long time to come.

After several years of marriage, Zhang Shu gave birth to a son for her husband, and the original family of three became a family of four.

Maybe he grew up, maybe he was moved by his stepmother's careful care, Xu He's attitude finally changed, and even his address changed from aunt to mother.

Xu Yajun is becoming more and more romantic.

Every birthday, Uncle Zhang always sends his children to school, washes clothes and cooks. But to her surprise, her husband secretly bought her a car and a bunch of flowers with his private money.

Looking at the man in front of him, Zhang Shu was happy and moved. It took me a long time to recover. I asked Xu Yajun where he got so much private money.

At this time, Xu Yajun always said confidently, "I don't hide my private money. How can I buy you flowers and gifts? "

Zhang Shu thought it was right, so he stopped caring about the other party's money.

Although his wife's attitude has changed, Xu Yajun will hand over half of her salary every month, and the rest will be used to buy gifts for her beloved.

On the anniversary of their marriage 10, Xu Yajun carefully prepared a romantic confession ceremony for his wife.

Flowers, balloons, heart-shaped petals on the ground, everything seems so attentive.

He stood in the petals with a rose in his hand and told her affectionately that it was a gift and an honor for God to arrange for me to meet you.

Before Zhang Shu could react, the two sons came out holding flowers:

"Mom, I hope you and Dad will always be good, and our family will be happy together."

Later, parents and friends who opposed their being together came to the scene and witnessed their happiness.

Look at the lovers, sons and parents around you.

Zhang Shu suddenly felt that there was nothing wrong with his decision ten years ago, and all the efforts were worthwhile.

Xu Yajun, 58, often goes out to play ball games and travel with his wife, leading a very sweet and practical life. The nourishment of love also makes 46-year-old cutie look like a brother and sister in front of his son Xu He.

I also hope that their family can always be so happy.