When two people are together, they will quarrel. Didn't the ancient "three wives and four concubines" often quarrel?

In feudal society, the impression that men are superior to women has penetrated into people's bone marrow, thus giving people the illusion that not only the emperor had 3,000 harems, but ancient men were all three wives and four concubines. So can these three wives and four concubines live in peace? If not, what should I do?

The status of ancient women was underground, but there were also high and low points. Even if men in ancient times married concubines, they could only sleep with their original wives. Why is this? Because it has something to do with some ancient etiquette. Three wives and four concubines refer to: one wife and two flat wives, two maids owned by the wife and two maids of the flat wife, and four women are concubines.

Anyone who has seen A Dream of Red Mansions knows that Pinger brought by Wang Xifeng is a concubine. Pinger is needed when he is uncomfortable or when men have unsatisfied needs. Through the description of A Dream of Red Mansions, we also know that it is normal for concubines, even those flexible concubines like Pinger, to be scolded by Wang Xifeng, a jealous woman, so the three wives and four concubines in ancient times would not quarrel because of the grade gap.

A concubine is a servant girl with a higher status than a servant girl, that's all. You can even send it out to be betrothed to others. How dare concubines pout in such a precarious position? It's normal to slap you gently and hit you. You will say that Xue Pan's mother-in-law is very powerful in a dream of red mansions. Yes, you mean his wife. Not a concubine!

So in ancient times, two people would quarrel, such as Wang Xifeng and Jia Lian, Xue Pan and Long, which were quarrels between peers. But there is no quarrel between wives and concubines, because there are grades!