Why are relatives out of touch now? Why don't they set you up, dig at you and laugh at you instead of helping you live a good life?

This is a good sign that you can't see others, and it is also the thinking of the poor. Seeing that you are doing well shows jealousy. In fact, everyone who has fished crabs knows that when you throw a bunch of crabs into the building, even if you don't cover them, the crabs can't climb up, because as long as one crab comes up, other crabs will drag it down. They don't like to see others live better than themselves, and they are more afraid that others will surpass them, so they try their best to destroy and suppress others every day.