Jia Baoyu said that her daughter is made of water, but why does she hate married women?

Jia Baoyu in a dream of red mansions has a classic comment on women before and after marriage: "Daughters are made of water and men are made of mud. I feel refreshed when I see my daughter. I feel stinky when I see a man. " "An unmarried girl is a priceless pearl; Without marriage, I don't know how many bad problems have arisen. Although it is a bead, it has no luster. This is a dead bead. When I get old, it will not be beads, but fisheye. " He sighed again: "strange, strange, how can these people be killed more than men if they only marry a man and dye the smell of a man!" " "Visible jia baoyu not only don't appreciate this married woman, even hate it. Why does Jia Baoyu hate married women? The main conclusions are as follows: First, if married women marry powerful people, most of them think that they can sit back and relax, find a long-term meal ticket and never think about going up again. A woman who is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting before marriage loses interest after marriage. Either stay with a group of women with poor common sense, or stay with a group of friends every three days to kill the boring housewife's life. Second, married women marry ordinary people, mostly around husbands, children, pots and pans. Busy with three meals a day all day. Finally, when I have leisure time, I have to take care of my parents-in-law for the sake of family harmony, and I have no time at all. Over time, I have lost my gentle and lovely appearance as a girl, which of course makes men feel uninterested. Third, after marriage, women want their men's career to flourish, so that they can have unlimited scenery. This is also understandable. However, many women are eager to succeed. They nag about their husbands' enthusiasm for official career and curry favor with powerful people all day, and rarely really understand a man's heart. This will make your man drift away from you. Once a man is really rich, the first thing he has to do is to repair his wife or marry a mistress. Fourth, if a married woman marries a wealthy businessman, she spends most of her time alone. Whoever moves money first doesn't care how he leaves her. It has existed since ancient times. Therefore, if you marry a wealthy businessman, although you are rich in luxury goods and clothes, you often have to endure the loneliness of living alone. You can't blame men. Due to the underdeveloped transportation and communication in ancient times, there was often no news for two to three months when going to a place. At that time, there were neither mobile phones nor telephones, and we could only express our feelings through homing pigeons. Married men are already busy with business, and there is nothing romantic about complaining about lovesickness through homing pigeons. Therefore, when men come back, women can't help complaining. A woman who has accumulated over time has no complaints at all, and it may be a helpless choice to have an affair. 5. Most men in ancient times had three wives and four concubines. As the saying goes, three women's lives. Even the first room is afraid of losing the favor of its owner and its position in the family. So once concubines are introduced, women will fall into endless power struggles. Even a kind woman before marriage should be more calculating in such a complicated environment. On the surface, several women live in peace, and their sisters are very kind. Secretly, no one expects to see anyone's jokes.