I have told the child the same sentence many times. How can it be invalid?

Because "nagging" is the most useless.

One is that because you talk too much, children don't know what they have done. In his mind, this matter is already your business, not his.

Secondly, this may be a way for your child to resist you, that is, to hate nagging and fight procrastination and procrastination.

Therefore, if you want children to take the initiative to do things, you need to adopt some new methods, such as:

First, when you want your child to do something, just pull the child to do it, needless to say too much.

For example, my children are still reluctant to let go when they watch the IPAD. I'll just say it once, and then gently take the IPAD away. Generally speaking, they are acceptable.

Second, when the child does something, give him positive feedback in time to make him feel a sense of accomplishment.

For example, it turns out that my children don't like English recording, and once they started recording for the first time under my guidance. No matter whether the recording is good or not, I encourage him to try for the first time, instead of pointing out his mistakes. Encourage his enthusiasm first, and then he will take the initiative next time.

Third, let children learn to be responsible. You can talk to them deeply about this matter.

For example, there was a time when children were unwilling to do their homework on their own initiative. I talked with them about this problem, asking them why they don't like doing homework, what help they need when doing homework, how to arrange their time to play and finish homework, and work out methods with them and then implement them together.

There are many ways to educate children, but no matter what method is used, the first thing to do is to manage your emotions.