How to treat the dismissal of kindergarten teachers who kissed boys in kindergarten? Do you agree with her behavior?

The key to this matter is that men are not legally considered as victims of sexual assault. Men are sexually assaulted? Does not exist at all; The society generally believes that men are strong and women are weak, and men are sexually assaulted. This is a joke, right? Tell me when you are cheap? One by one, the case is regarded as a battlefield between men and women, just like a carnival. You can make trouble. If you don't make changes in legislation and social atmosphere, this kind of case will definitely happen again next time.

In fact, this matter can't be generalized, just look at the superficial phenomenon. First of all, the behavior of kindergarten teachers kissing children may be that children are too cute out of love for them, but they just like them. There are no other bad ideas. Secondly, it is not a crime for kindergarten teachers to kiss their children. It can be infinitely expanded or reduced to very small things. In fact, this kind of behavior alone can judge whether the teacher touches ethics or not according to the teacher's starting point.

If it is for obscene purposes, then the teacher can really say that the crime is unforgivable. If it's just because the child is so cute, there's no need to make things worse out of love for the child. Maybe some people say it's unsanitary, and I agree with that. But there is no need to be nervous because a teacher suffers from this because he loves children. I believe that a normal person cannot resist this kind of public opinion in society.

You think she is beautiful at your age, but children may not think so. Suppose you are this child and meet this female teacher in the street twenty years later. You have become an old lady. Is it disgusting to remember being kissed mouth to mouth? Would you like to be kissed by menstruation now? Even though she was beautiful when she was young.

Under the news that men were abused by women before, a group of men were laughing at men who were victims of domestic violence ... and it was so serious that the female domestic violence victim hit the male victim on the head with iron tongs until he bled, and then ran barefoot to the police in the middle of the night. Some people say it's love, others say it's rubbing clothes, and a group of people think they are humorous and tease the victims there. They didn't realize what would happen if the sexes were exchanged, and they hit their heads with iron bars until they bled. What if there is syncope, epilepsy, even brain injury, shock and death? What is even more frightening is that male victims can't even get the correct political support from society. Replying to ridicule is politically correct ... how similar is it to Asians being discriminated against?

Some people are poisoned by these ideas in their own minds and then impose them on a child. Even if they don't feel weak as men, they are adult men. Children are another matter. No matter what physical and psychological harm they suffer, they can't be equal to adults at all.

When my son was in kindergarten, his crotch was cracked once and his pants were not changed. When I went to pick up the child from school, the teacher took me aside and whispered to me that the child's pants were cracked. This is a piece of cake for many parents, but I am very emotional. We all think that children don't care, but teachers care so much about their feelings and self-esteem. This is a good teacher. When a person is growing up, his self-esteem and personality are not formed overnight, but little things get together and accumulate the slightest emotion. The ancients taught: Don't take evil as right. Your seemingly fun and harmless behavior may have a great impact on children's three views. When I was a child in kindergarten, a teacher said to my mother: Your daughter is stupid, take it back and stop studying. ? Later, I went to the middle class and changed my teacher. I gradually become lively and cheerful, often performing on behalf of the school, and dancing at C. Imagine, if I have been taught by my old teacher, am I so dull, stupid, dark and introverted so far?

Now it is a kiss. In case you are too brave and want to observe and practice other behaviors in the future, excessive behavior will leave a shadow on your child. It is difficult to shake off the psychological shadow, especially the childhood shadow, which may be his lifelong nightmare. If you don't come out, you will ruin your life. People's hearts are raised bit by bit. Maybe she really likes children, but it's really disgusting to shoot a kiss to get the audience's attention. Nowadays, the molestation of boys will always be ignored. For girls, at least everyone knows that it is obscene and bad behavior, but for boys, everyone will think that it is no big deal for fun. In fact, in the final analysis, it is also a stereotype that boys will not suffer, and more seriously, they will think that you are being melodramatic/making a mountain out of a molehill. I hope this concept will improve. Boys will also be sexually harassed/molested, which is not a shame.