Often teasing children, what negative effects will it bring to children?

Often teasing children will cause a heavy psychological shadow to them. For example, some relatives will say to their children, "Look at you, you are nothing like your parents. You must have picked it up. Children will hide behind their parents in fear when they hear these words, and some will cry directly. Adults will feel cute, funny and happy when they see their children's reactions. They feel that their children are so angry that they can only be satisfied with their own happiness. Because children are still young, they have too little contact with things, and there are not many judgments about the outside world, and they can't tell which ones are jokes. What is a lie? Of course, many children will take what adults say seriously and feel wronged. Over time, even when you grow up, there will be shadows.

There are many ways to tease your baby, which may be encountered by all children now. It seems to be a way of communication between relatives and children, but the consequences may not be what everyone thinks. Children's world is relatively simple, and the attitudes and ways of people around them will affect their judgment and handling of the future. Moreover, children are more direct than adults in receiving and outputting information. When children can't tell the truth of something, they will keep it in mind, so children are more likely to enter a negative state. Therefore, many ways to tease your baby are not desirable, so don't follow suit. Parents should try to avoid putting their children in this embarrassing situation. If they encounter such a situation, they should also bravely refuse this way of "teasing the baby" for their children.

During the Spring Festival, many parents get together to make fun of their children. The most common saying is "You give a show, I'll give you candy", and children have become a way for adults to have fun. But for some introverted children who don't want to show it, this is a very embarrassing thing. If adults force their children, they will only make them weaker and feel inferior.

Parents should teach their children to refuse skillfully and say no boldly. If children don't know how to deal with it after being teased, many parents may suddenly feel flustered, and children will naturally feel helpless and insecure when they see their parents' state. Therefore, parents should make good use of every opportunity to improve their children's emotional intelligence, guide their children to learn to skillfully resolve unexpected situations and teach them to express their emotions. If you don't like what you don't want to do, you can boldly refuse, understand your child's emotions, and don't scold or criticize your child at will. Through correct guidance, let your children feel the love of their parents and start rational thinking on the basis of a sense of security. Because parents are the closest people to the child, if even parents can't comfort and understand themselves, the child's heart will always be uneasy. Therefore, teasing the baby must be moderate.