How to deal with extramarital affairs

In the face of extramarital affairs, you can try the following methods.

First, don't dwell on this matter. If Mr. Wang is suspected of having an extramarital affair, women will be tempted to prove it and want to find more reliable evidence of extramarital affair. Once such attention happens, you will really find that your husband has a lot of suspicious evidence.

Extramarital affairs have more curious elements in deep desires than in sexual needs. If this man still loves his wife, his family and his marriage usually end naturally after six months to a year.

Second, what not to do is to find this woman, especially not to attack this woman. Some women will say to their husbands, "How can you be with that scum?" This demeans the husband's personality and will arouse his anger, even if he once loved his wife very much or he felt guilty about her, so he didn't feel guilty. Because since you despise him so much, you deserve it.

Third, don't spread it around. Men care more about their social impressions and have a strong sense of self-protection. If outsiders know that he has an extramarital affair, in order to avoid being accused of playing with women and being morally corrupt, he will talk nonsense about his long-term love for his wife and the pain of his original marriage, and he will take the initiative to file for divorce to prove that he is an injured person. In addition, our culture also says that "marriage without love is immoral".

Fourth, don't tell your husband's extramarital affairs to relatives, especially grandparents. Otherwise this man will be embarrassed to go to his wife's house in the future. After all, this is a couple's privacy. Don't pass it on to the unit. Some women go to work to make trouble, let the leader take charge of her husband, or teach him a lesson. This is an invalid behavior that leads to the division of marriage.

Fifth, don't be too nice to your husband during this time. Don't pretend to be a lover, it will make men uncomfortable. You must show the ability to live independently, take care of yourself first and make yourself comfortable. Don't cry every day or just keep a straight face. I know many bosses are afraid to go home after having an affair. Do you know why? I was afraid that my wife would cry and make noise, so I had to drive around the street until after five o'clock in the morning. At this time, even the excited wife fell asleep.

Once you find out that your spouse is having an affair, don't make a fuss, but deal with it calmly. What you need to do is to know the truth, analyze the current situation, know your choice of family, love, money and career, and consult a legal and professional marriage investigation company ... As long as you can provide a little clue, we can tell you the truth, and we can help you investigate each other's family, life experience, conduct and economy before marriage, and professional marriage lawyers can provide you with legal evidence guidance for extramarital affairs. ....