The topic of "how happy a brother and sister can be" has aroused heated discussion among netizens. What do you think the most beautiful love should be like?

In The Next Stop is Happiness, the two brothers and sisters, who are 10 years old, have captured the hearts of countless people sweetly and sadistically. As long as they update related topics in the second episode, they will be sent to hot search. Because the topic of "finally knowing Xiao Yaxian's happiness" generated by watching TV series also brought Xiao Yaxian 16-year-old boyfriend to the Tucao Conference, which reached a high status.

How happy can brothers and sisters make people? Before love comes, pour cold water on it and calm down.

Brothers and sisters are obvious patterns of intimacy, marriage and love. You can also see many examples of brothers and sisters in the real society. For example, Faye Wong is older than Nicholas Tse 1 1 year, Bauhinia is 8 years older than Julie, and Zhongli is 12 years older than Zhang Lun. Internationally, French President Macron is 24 years younger than his wife, which can be said to be a model of brother and sister love. Movies such as You Without Secrets, Leftover Women Is King, and TV series such as Next Stop is Happiness are highly topical. Some phenomena and performances in entertainment circles and movies and TV plays have conveyed very healthy and positive information about brother-sister love to our public.

Let's talk about the love between brother and sister from another angle.

First, pour a pot of cold water. There are many brothers and sisters who love each other in the entertainment circle, but film and television dramas also convey all kinds of positive information. Public opinion is also more open and tolerant to brothers and sisters, but we should remind everyone not to feel too sorry for themselves because of the influence of movies and TV series. (William Shakespeare Winston's famous movie quote) (Movie) A single female friend in her forties who is financially independent came to consult. It is said that a 28-year-old boy appeared beside her and chased her desperately. Her first reaction was, "Does this man have a plan?" Yes (william shakespeare's Hamlet, Wen Zi) Hey, this is the simplest, most direct and normal reaction of most women when they face the pursuit of men younger than themselves, especially men much younger, despite the aura of movies and TV series.

Of course, the purpose of throwing cold water doesn't mean that you don't like your brother and sister. The survey of love trend of 95-year-olds in 20 19 shows that 90% of 95-year-olds can accept brother-sister relationship, and 5 1.6% of post-95-year-olds can accept the age difference in love. Coupled with the prevalence of "milk dog culture" and "rice circle culture", idols are getting younger and younger, and girls are becoming less and less resistant to younger brothers and boys. Brothers and sisters can predict the future trend.

As a result, it has brought new topics and lessons about marriage and love to single young men and women. Brother and sister are coming, do you have the ability and courage to carry love?

When Li Bingbing's brother and sister were exposed, she was outspoken in the interview. "I am strong enough, not afraid of failure, and I can control my feelings. To this day, I can still bear all the consequences that this love may bring. So why not give it a try? " Then, like us, ordinary brothers and sisters who are too different in age, are you brave enough to face rumors first in the face of traditional public opinion and evaluation in China society? If the result of love is not satisfactory, can you accept all possible results of love without fear of failure and experience? How happy can brothers and sisters make people? Before love comes, pour cold water on it and calm down.

Second, are you ready for the transition from love to marriage and the difference it brings? When we received counseling, there was an example of a female friend. She found that 28 years old is 6 years older than her husband, and her husband is 22 years older. Later, before she had a baby, her husband cheated on her in her bar and dated a young model, which made her very miserable. When she comforted her husband, she might not have had enough fun. Maybe the husband will go home after 30 years old. I think I should go on with my husband, but I think what he did deeply cheated and betrayed me. Of course, this may only be a very rare case of brother and sister falling in love, but through this matter, we need to think. People of different ages have different emotional needs and physiological needs. We, especially female friends who grew up with traditional education, often adjust their needs for spouses after marriage and with the birth of children after marriage. The feeling of love supported by dopamine can only last for two years at most. Then, when the enthusiasm fades, or the enthusiasm tends to calm down, have you reached an agreement on love and marriage, and can you accept all kinds of things that may happen in each other's ordinary life without paying?

Of course, when I hear this, I may say that we should not only solve the problems that brother and sister have to face, but also solve other ordinary marriages and love. But because they are brothers and sisters, they can be said to be particularly bloated. Here, we don't want to talk too much about how to treat gender equality and brother-sister relationship correctly. We hope that through the above simple questions, we can let everyone think more about their feelings and marriage and make clear their emotional patterns and needs.

Love does have the feeling of love. Very beautiful. It's dangerous to just stand on the feeling. It's like standing on a floating cloud. If you can't stand it, you will always sink. Therefore, it is important for us to have understanding and love. Know yourself, and you can go your own way. You can love the person you want to love. Whether it's brother and sister or uncle and Lori's love.