Why does a person who has a good relationship with you keep mocking you?

I like to ridicule people close to me. Common reasons are jealousy and potential low self-worth. If he has never expressed his blessing and appreciation for your achievements, it probably means that he is jealous of you, and ridicule means lowering your value and improving your own. This characteristic of this kind of person will not be shown in front of ordinary people, and there will be less scruples in front of close people. This may also show that he is more relaxed and more secure in front of you.

First of all, you should ask yourself, have you let your friends know how you feel? If your friend is naturally insensitive, he may not realize that you don't like him mocking you, so you should tell him first: "You hurt me by doing this, please don't do this in the future."

Your obstacle may be that you think your friend is kind to you, and you shouldn't have resentment and protest against him, but you should think like this: your friend's kindness to you is not bought with your patience, and your patience is not maintaining but destroying this relationship.

Try to resolve this contradiction with humor. For example, the next time he belittles you, you can say to him, "You are also very interesting. You always like to say so many hurtful things to me in your head. " Or: "Do you belittle me and make you feel a sense of accomplishment?" . You point out the facts through humor, and you can also make your friends realize this and reflect on it.

There's another way. The next time you make a small mistake, or you find that he seized the opportunity to belittle you, say "Oh, I'm so stupid …" or "Oh, I gave you another chance to belittle me and make you happy." Cultivate your sense of humor, turn yourself into a clown, and then sarcastically go back. The other party will find it interesting and appreciate your protest.

Change the previous interaction mode, observe the memories, whether you are depressed and angry every time after he taunts, which may arouse his excitement and make him want to ridicule you more. Then what you can do in the future is to respond in another way, which can be to protest in calm language or ignore it.

Of course, you can protest at any time. In addition to verbal protest, you can also express your protest through alienation and indifference. When you are good at the opposite direction, you can tell him that you really don't like his sarcasm, and you won't want to associate with him again unless he can get rid of this habit.