When people reach middle age, they feel that life is becoming more and more meaningless. Do you feel this way?

It seems that when it comes to the meaning of life, many people will think about some major events, and even say that they have not done an earth-shattering event in their lives. This is a joke.

0 1. Middle-aged people are too comfortable.

Many middle-aged people especially like to toss and turn when they are young, but because of parents or family reasons, they can only work step by step, get married and have children, and passively live a life that repeats every day before they have time to feel life.

When people reach middle age, their families and careers are stable, and their inner restlessness begins to stir again. They have money, time, experience and life. At this time, they are unwilling to do anything.

But the reality once again broke the illusion of these middle-aged people, the family is stable, but the children have to worry about their studies; The career is stable, but if you don't make progress, you will be surpassed by your colleagues.

No matter how many ideas middle-aged people have, they will always be bound by family and career, which will make them feel that the rest of their lives can only revolve around family and work and lose their meaning.

Although every middle-aged person has a different definition of life, I just think that when people reach middle age, life is meaningless and there is no need to be so pessimistic.

How many people will envy middle-aged people who live a stable life, and envy your family's harmony and food and clothing. If such a life still needs the meaning of melodramatic life, how can people who encounter midlife crisis live!

02. Encounter a midlife crisis

This situation is particularly serious after the epidemic. This year, many post-80s people suffered from a middle-aged crisis, and countless families went bankrupt. Many people lost their jobs just after 40, and it's hard to lose their income instantly!

Middle-aged people who encounter crisis are more likely to doubt life, and then continue to deny themselves in the first half of their lives, falling into over-thinking, leading to anxiety, confusion and even depression!

The meaning of life is a heavy topic and a realistic thing for them. If we talk about the meaning of life mostly in the spiritual level and ideological realm, then for them, money can represent all the meanings!

In modern society, the pace of life is very fast. Imagine that we live on the highway120km. How can I not be nervous? It is meaningless to think more about the meaning of life at this time, but it is meaningful to make more money!

The so-called tenderness and lewdness, if you want to think about higher-level problems, it is more important to solve life problems first!

Write at the end:

People will find life meaningless when they reach middle age. I think it may be a good thing, at least it proves that we middle-aged people who are labeled as greasy have not lost our thinking ability!

Thinking is our proof and ability to avoid walking dead. No matter what the answer to this question is, we should take the initiative to find it, instead of passively waiting to be defined!