In which period do girls feel most insecure?

1. Physical insecurity: I also work overtime until ten o'clock. Whether it is public transportation or driving by yourself, the risk of violence after dark is far greater than that of men, and it is even more unimaginable to encounter trafficking.

2. Insecurity in the workplace: When women encounter things with ulterior motives in the workplace, they either resign or use their parents' relationship to solve them. It is difficult to solve these problems without hurting muscles and bones. As for legal channels, it is inconceivable that at least very formal enterprises in China have no education on sexual harassment in the workplace. Of course, maybe boys have similar problems.

3. Insecurity in public opinion: dinosaurs, leftover women, strong women, housewives, money worshippers, princesses, women men, and aunts of neighborhood committees. Anyway, there is always a fear that I will be labeled as bad in my life and criticized in society every day.

4. Incomplete social welfare: The amount of alimony after divorce is a joke in China, so before going home to be a housewife, you must have the confidence to stay married for a lifetime or return to society in a few minutes. As for the discrimination against women of childbearing age in the workplace, I'm too lazy to talk about it. In the process of evolution, men provide survival materials, while women are attached to men, so it is necessary to ensure that they will not be abandoned.

In China, serious son preference and unhealthy education model often make girls neglected in adolescence, and even suffer emotional and physical abuse.

Lack of unconditional love and acceptance, no self-awareness, self-cognition confusion, self-cognition based on the evaluation of others. Because of the lack, I have been looking for love all my life, and I know myself by the attention of others. The unresolved trauma has seriously damaged the intimate relationship.

Loved people are hurt, betrayed, abandoned, change their views on intimate relationships, no longer trust others, and focus on not being hurt again.

The survey shows that China people have more than 60% insecure attachment types, and the society has different requirements for men and women. Various factors lead to women's general lack of security in intimate relationships.