I've never had peace since I married my daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law is a nurse, kind-hearted and modest, but

Dude, your situation is a little similar to mine. It's not so serious. I have consulted many friends and inquired about how other people's families do it through various methods. As a result, I asked more than 1 people, and most of them were in this situation. Then I launched a poll with more than 4 people in our group. More than 78% of them were in this situation, haha.

one of them is very good. You can learn from it. Anyway, I use it very well.

First of all, you must be patient on your own side, because the running-in between the two families is not so fast. What you need to do is to comfort your daughter-in-law from above and communicate with your parents from below. Don't get into trouble with your daughter-in-law, which will get worse and worse. Moreover, women are very protective of their children, and everyone who has just become a mother has certain paranoia about being killed, thinking about whether the children and the elderly will have accidents and so on.

If you ask your parents not to go to your daughter-in-law's place except cooking and washing clothes, don't go, especially when nursing. Don't ask your daughter-in-law if it's time to drink milk. She knows when to feed the child. If you ask her and don't answer, just don't ask and hold the child. I suggest you don't go if you are going on a business trip. Your daughter-in-law has no sense of security (women always do). Another point is that a woman who has just given birth to a child is psychologically very fragile if she has not been two years old. Especially after the pain of giving birth, she will feel psychologically unbalanced (now a woman), so you can do whatever you want, or she will easily get angry and never have a good life when she gets angry. She always feels that I have given birth to your family.

in a word; Just try to satisfy your daughter-in-law, and tell the old people everything well, because the society now is not what it used to be, and girls are very delicate after giving birth.

As long as your wife is

kind-hearted and modest

, she will adjust herself slowly, and it is good that the children can walk in the fields. I believe your daughter-in-law will tolerate your daughter-in-law more.