In social interaction, how to make you feel that the other person has a lot of connotation and culture?

I think if a person has connotation and accomplishment, he will have his own views and opinions on things first. Only when you have your own arguments and convincing examples can you make the people who hear you have a sense of identity, not those who blindly follow the crowd, those who are not firm when the wind blows, or those who are not nutritious and just for entertainment. Such people may get everyone's attention at first, but over time, this casual attitude will eventually make everyone bored. I admire a girl in our class. She is not the kind of person who is particularly ostentatious. Although I don't have much contact with her at ordinary times, I hope to be friends with her, because in class, teachers often ask some thoughtful questions. She is not as active as some students. Old Yin Gao's hand was laughed at by her classmates or a few popular words. She gives people a very stable feeling and exudes a literary atmosphere with poetry in her stomach. When it's her turn to speak, I can talk to Kan Kan generously. The language is fluent and organized, covering a wide range. In short, it is very convincing, and I can't help listening carefully every time she speaks.

I think an educated person can listen carefully when she speaks, and then express approval or opposition, instead of depressed negation or fierce affirmation. Besides, I can do what I say first. There is a girl around me who always conveys some ideas and criticizes other people's practices. At first, I agreed with her because I thought what she said was very reasonable, but later when I got along, I found that she sometimes did what she criticized, obviously hitting her face! So when she talks about these things again, I just take a listening attitude and don't take it to heart. Self-cultivation and self-cultivation are not just words. Don't be a giant in words and a dwarf in action!