"No bookkeeping", the boss gave a big red envelope on the wedding day, and the bride chose to resign the next day. Why?

The rich hold the money field and the poor hold the personal field. Getting married and marrying a daughter-in-law is naturally inseparable from the help of relatives and friends. A wedding is also related to the face of the two families. Everyone pays attention to face and vanity. Therefore, the bigger the ostentation and extravagance of marriage, the better. Everyone will invite relatives and friends to the wedding, whether they are familiar or not. A wedding will be called as long as it has something to do with it, which will make people feel chilling.

Going to the wedding means following the crowd, giving the wedding wishes to trust, and sending some help in the initial stage of the new family. Generally speaking, according to the relationship with the bride and groom, the red envelopes of immediate family members will be larger, while the ordinary friends who are slightly farther away will be less. In addition to the red envelopes sent by relatives and friends, there are also molecular money received by colleagues. The molecular money of ordinary colleagues is the least among several categories.

The boss gave a big red envelope on the wedding day, and the bride resigned directly the next day.

Shen Rose is an ordinary employee of a company. She worked in this company for a while and got along well with her colleagues. Besides, Ross is enthusiastic and always helps other colleagues, which makes her better impression in the company. As the wedding approaches, Ross also wants her colleagues to attend her wedding. So she posted the news that she was getting married in the company group and invited her colleagues to attend the wedding. After receiving the news, her colleagues also responded positively and sent blessings. They all said that they must be present on the wedding day.

The wedding was held as scheduled, and colleagues rushed to the wedding site. A registration desk was set up at the entrance of the hotel. Colleagues pay money to register here, which is varied, depending on everyone's wishes. Some colleagues really can't leave, and they will send WeChat in advance or ask colleagues to bring the gift money. Just as everyone was giving gifts, Xiao Wang, the driver of the company boss, also took out a big red envelope, which looked very thick and should have put a lot of money. Xiao Wang told the bookkeeper that the boss asked him to give it directly to the bride without bookkeeping. Colleagues next to me were envious after seeing it, and they all joked that Rose had made a big profit this time.

Rose saw the leader send a red envelope and quickly greeted him. Seeing the thickness of the red envelope, she was elated. She thought the boss looked stingy at ordinary times, but she didn't expect to be so generous this time, so she smiled even happier. She quickly welcomed everyone into the restaurant and gave the big red envelope to her sister for safekeeping.

The wedding was held perfectly. Ross and her prince charming finally tied the knot and became a family. With everyone's blessing, her wedding ended and her colleagues got up to say goodbye to Rose. Originally, it was a happy marriage, but the day after the marriage, Rose submitted her resignation like a company. What happened?

It turned out that after the wedding, Ross and her husband counted gifts together at night. When she got the big red envelope from her boss, Rose also showed off to her husband to see how generous the boss was. Unexpectedly, when two people happily opened the red envelope, they were stunned by the scene in front of them. It turns out that the thick red envelope contains odds and ends of change, which looks like a thick stack, but it is actually 200 yuan. You should know Ross's colleague.

The more Ross thinks about it, the angrier he gets. Although she knew the boss was stingy before, she wanted to make trouble with him several times because of the overtime pay. Later, she did not leave her job. The boss only gave her 200 yuan for such a big wedding now. Ross can't swallow this tone. The next day, she submitted her resignation report. She felt that if she put up with it this time, the boss of the company would never take her seriously again and bully her at will.

We sympathize with Ross's experience. When you meet such a calculating boss, it may be the best choice to leave early. In fact, in this case, what the boss has done is undoubtedly very chilling. If you don't want to pay too much, you can choose to pay less, so there will be a huge gap in your heart, and then you will lose people.

In fact, how much money is given is influenced by many factors. In general, there are the following points to note.

1, follow the crowd and avoid reluctance, vulgarity and "hypocrisy"

Followers represent heartfelt wishes to the new couple. It should be sincere, in order to bring joy to the couple and express congratulations. It can't be regarded as a way to bear or show off wealth reluctantly, let alone with ulterior motives. In order to get more returns, it is undoubtedly vulgar.

Money is generally even, because even numbers represent yes-men, which is more auspicious and festive.

3. It is best to put the gift money in a red envelope. You must write your blessing and your name on the red envelope. There is such a custom in some places.

4. The amount of gift money is generally greater than the expenses for the newcomer to entertain you or to entertain you at ordinary times. No matter how much friends and relatives give gifts, don't take advantage of yourself and let the bride and groom suffer.

5, the general taboo of bride price, you should understand the general taboo before sending the bride price. When giving away new practical products, it is best to know the needs of the recipients and inform them in advance to avoid repeated purchases by the recipients. It's not rude.

Gifts should not be "knife and scissors", which is suspected of "making a clean break"; Avoid sending unlucky items such as "bells (terminal), pears (detached), umbrellas (scattered), white cloth, medicine, satin clothes, turtles, green hats, short sleeves and half sleeves". These items shouldn't be in the wedding hall.

6. with members. When you receive a wedding invitation from an ordinary colleague, friend or distant relative, you can send it with everyone if you don't want to give it away, but you don't want too many gifts. Combine all the gifts and money into one, commonly known as "entourage", and list everyone's name on the gift list, which is neither rude nor can send blessings to the couple, killing two birds with one stone.