You can't keep a secret yourself, and others won't keep a secret for you.

Now many people will say: I really (his) (mother) trust you, so I told you my secret. Why did you tell others?

Why do you want to ask others to help you keep a secret that you can't even keep yourself?

Movie case:

In ipartment, a secret of Yo-Yo was known by Ceng Xiaoxian, and Ceng Xiaoxian promised Yo-Yo that she would keep the secret. In the next photo, Ceng Xiaoxian calls everyone in the apartment, which means I have to tell you a long secret, only one!

Everyone tells it alone, and everyone thinks that only they know the secret. When they share it with others, it becomes public information.

Case study:

This is the epitome of our life. When we tell a secret to others, it is no longer a secret. You should be ready to share your secrets. If you really care, just hide it in your heart, let yourself slowly digest the problem, face it yourself and solve it yourself.

Life case:

I have a very good friend, Susu, who is careless, manly in speaking and doing things, and so ignorant of the road that he can't justify himself. For example, without someone to lead her, she can't find the exit of the supermarket (three exits, none, alas! Helpless! )。

She and I are a bit like fair-weather friends. By fair-weather friends, I mean we all like to eat meat, and we can all drink. Although we don't drink much, we can play and eat together. She seldom shares her unhappy things with me. When we are together, I can tease her and help her with her homework before she goes to bed (the requirement is to let her put in a good word to coax me). I am very happy and happy with you, and we seldom quarrel, because we are all people who can't remember. Even if we quarrel, we will basically forget it the next day and will not hold grudges.

Another friend named Belle is the kind of person who wears thin clothes, takes off clothes and is good at chatting. I spend more time with Bell than with Susie, but I prefer to play with Susie. In fact, she is also very good, very business-minded, and can make friends with anyone quickly, which I envy. You can nod and smile when you meet others for the first time, but you are afraid to chat (I don't know why). But I can't agree with her views on some things. I don't like her telling me the dark side of her dormitory or life, other people's secrets, telling me that everyone is not my parents and won't spoil me all the time. When I say this, some people will say that I am unappreciative and others are thinking of me. Why am I like this?

Case study:

I am the kind of girl who likes others to say nice things. I know there is a dark side in this world, but I believe in my heart that goodness is more than darkness. Many people can't be pure after experiencing too much darkness. Many articles say: if you can be weak, who wants to be so strong, if you can be naive and romantic forever, who wants to be eroded by worldly trifles. Never know another person through another person's mouth.

I don't like being with Bell. A girl I liked very much at that time, in my opinion, was a goddess. She speaks softly and looks beautiful. She had a very failed love experience, which is a pity to me, but from her, I saw that this girl is a girl with a heart, a mistress and a very mean girl. While talking to that girl, Belle talked and laughed, but turned to tell me all kinds of problems of this girl. I can't do it. If I don't like it, I really won't talk to that person. Maybe this is also my immature place!

Personal feelings:

In fact, many times, no matter what kind of secrets you have, you must keep them in your heart! If you really want to say it, then you can say it in front of everyone, so it will become a little joke, and if you say it, there will be nothing. The more you care about things, the deeper your memory, and the harder it is to forget.

If you want to tell others your secret, you might as well write it down on paper and burn it. It's not that your best friend can't keep your secret, but it's a big deal for you. It may not matter to her. If the needle hadn't been stuck in her hand, she wouldn't have felt the same way.

I'm Ying Ji. If you think my article is ok, please give me a compliment!