Women in Henan sun 260 thousand bride price, saying it's average in the local area. How to break the marriage custom of high bride price?

The wedding itself is a festive day. A faithful man and a faithful woman are united. The man gives the bride a bride price, one is willing to give and the other is willing to accept. As long as it is a normal marriage, it is not a fraudulent marriage. Marriage itself is a matter for people. Women in Henan sun 260 thousand bride price, saying it's average in the local area. How to break the marriage custom of high bride price?

1, event content

A woman in Shangqiu basked in the bride price given by her husband's family. The meeting ceremony of 1 1000 symbolizes one in a million. The bride price is268,000. There is a house in the city and a home in the countryside. Get on at 6000 and get off at 8800. The woman said that her bride price standard is average in the local area, and she just follows the crowd and follows the local etiquette. These betrothal gifts will be taken away as dowry and become the starting capital of the young couple's future life. Many netizens said that this bride price is too high, and I hope this trend can really disappear in the long river of history with the progress of the times.

2. How to break the marriage custom of high bride price?

Some people are fiercely critical of the high-priced bride price, believing that it corrupts customs and harms society. Undeniably, the phenomenon of sky-high bride price does bring some disadvantages, such as greatly increasing the cost of marriage for men, encouraging the trend of comparison, and may lead to social problems such as marital poverty and interest disputes. Most of them are worried that the high price bride price will lead to the wind of comparison, which will lead to the disorder of bride price. This kind of worry is not unreasonable, but it is unlikely to happen in practice. Marriage and love is a fully competitive market, and the price increase of bride price will be adversely restricted by demand. It is difficult for the mainstream market to surpass the local economic level. Even if there is an occasional breakthrough, it will quickly pull back, otherwise many girls who want to get married will not get married.

3. Does the wedding really become a business?

In fact, when discussing that the man needs a bride price, people often forget that the woman also needs to provide a dowry. Traditionally, bride price and dowry are the material basis for parents to form a new family for their children. Therefore, we can also talk about dowry. Setting a ratio between bride price and dowry will naturally form a rational number of bride price according to the situation of each family. For example, the bride price and dowry are 2: 1, the bride price is 200,000, and the dowry must be 65,438+10,000. Wouldn't it be better to set a rigid ratio?

Postscript: If you can't accept the local concepts of marriage, money and family, then measure your ability and find a girl from other places to make your parents feel better. As for whether girls from other places are attracted to you and want to get married with you, it depends on your own skills. Getting married is your own business.