Make friends with mature people.

Recently, I talked about the mental aspect by reading Teacher Li Xiaolai's Make Friends with Time, and made some comments on the teacher's point of view.

Dr. George Borry's definition: the mind mainly includes the following three aspects: a. acquiring knowledge; B. applied knowledge; C. abstract reasoning.

Dr. Borui believes that the happiness of a person's life is directly related to his mind. There are intellectual differences between people, that is, everyone's mental ability is different; And the differences in this respect may be worlds apart.

This reminds me of a story:

Once I checked in at the airport, a couple lined up in front of me, all dressed up, talking and laughing. At first glance, they just went on vacation. Listening to their chat, the girl was nervous and excited when she went abroad for the first time, and kept pulling the boy to ask questions. The boy always patiently said, "Don't worry, I'm here."

Seeing that it was two people's turn to board the plane, the girl suddenly let out a loud cry and then burst into tears.

I didn't bring my passport ......

Everyone was stunned. The boy was stunned for a few seconds, stepped forward, patted the girl on the shoulder and said, "Nothing, let's change the ticket for tomorrow."

This statement made the girl cry even harder: "The ticket is long gone, so I can't leave." The more you talk, the more you cry.

The boy was not discouraged at all, but he advised her with a smile: "Nothing, Hawaii can't go, we can go to Shunyi. I tell you, Shanghai is much more interesting. Why don't you just find a hotel next to you and play for two days before you go back? "

The girl smiled when she was angry.

In the spectator, the man silently bowed his head and the woman sighed. Many people probably don't know how cool it is to fall in love with mature people.

up to now, the deepest thing I have learned is that you must make friends with people with mature minds, otherwise it will lead to premature aging.

I don't know if you have such a friend.

Every time a teacher asks a question without getting a response, he is always the first to raise his hand and say something upside down.

every time someone tells a cold joke at the dinner table, he always stands up and warms up at the first time.

every time no one dares to take the task in a group activity, he always takes the responsibility of team leader to run before and after for everyone.

So it's actually not that difficult to judge the emotional intelligence. As long as you think more about others, you will naturally understand their difficulties. Mature people have exceeded their horizons, and high emotional intelligence may really be just a by-product.

when I was a child, I especially disliked these people, and I thought they liked to show off and sing high-profile songs. After many years, I found out that they actually grew up a little faster than you.

I don't think people are more and more tolerant when they are mature, and they can accept everything. On the contrary, I think it should be a process of elimination. Know what is important and what is not, and then be a simple person.

Simplicity means that there are not so many worries about gains and losses, fewer people who don't like it, fewer things that don't like it, and less time to think only about yourself.

I advise you to learn to be a mature person and stay away from immature people for your physical and mental health.