Girls can be gentle, but they must not be weak!

Girls can be gentle, but they must not be weak.

100-Day Self-Improvement Challenge

What are the signs of weak girls?

1. Hard-working and uncomplaining, dare not refute

Cowardly women, no matter what Whether in life or at work, I work hard and never complain. Maybe it is due to the environment I grew up in. In my own home, I don’t have any temper. I can do whatever my parents say and I can be bullied by my brothers and sisters at will, but I never say anything. A "no" word.

2. Let others bully you and dare not resist

The more cowardly a woman is, the more she will be bullied and the more she will suffer. When something is unfair, I don’t dare to express my opinion. When I am seriously hurt or misunderstood, I choose to swallow my anger. When I have a conflict with a stranger, I also choose to tolerate it.

3. Excessive. Give without asking for anything in return

Women with weak personalities are over-giving, whether at work or at home. In their consciousness, they feel that their value is what they pay for others. Only by paying for others can you gain recognition and love from others.

4. Being overly tolerant and having no bottom line

A woman with a weak personality may think it is herself if someone knocks her down outside. It’s my fault that if I don’t have anything serious to do, I will choose to be patient because I don’t want to make things worse, I just want to keep things quiet.

5. Not confident enough and a bit humble

Weak character, in the final analysis. They are all not confident enough. Maybe they have never found their self-worth since childhood, have never been recognized by others, and have never been liked by others simply because of who they are.

How should I change myself? :

(1) When you meet someone you are a little scared of, don’t take a detour and go straight to them.

(2) Stand up straight and talk to them with your chest raised <. /p>

(3) Stare at the other person’s eyes when speaking. If you can’t do it at first, stare at the bridge of his nose first.

(4) If the other person’s voice is louder than yours, just focus on it. Suddenly lower your voice.

(5) Keep intervals of silence during the conversation.

(6) Don't use words like "I'm sorry" easily.

(7) Learn to communicate. Many times it seems that others are strong and you are afraid of them. In fact, when you communicate more with them, you will find that everyone has a kind side and everyone is not a bad person. Of course, there is no need for him to be so mean to you.

How to do it:

1 Don’t smile stupidly if you don’t have any confidence, especially if you don’t have the confidence to do so with just one glance. Laugh, you laugh. Not smiling at ordinary times can almost solve the problem of 50 weakness.

2. Speak in a natural tone, don’t whisper, hold your head up, don’t blush and lower your head, and speak calmly and steadily, as the saying goes. Be gentle but powerful, neither too cold nor too hot.

3. Walk with your head up and your chest straight, your feet lowered, your eyes level, don’t hunch your back, and walk as slowly as possible. Be calm, don't be downcast, and your whole aura will change.

4 If you don’t know how to tell jokes, don’t tell jokes. If you don’t know how to tell jokes, don’t tell jokes. If you don’t know how to tell jokes, don’t tell jokes. Otherwise, you will become a cold spot or topic terminator, and others will secretly laugh at you.

5. Reject firmly and forcefully. Reject others openly and with a brief reason, preferably no more than five words, and avoid over-explanation. Remember, you have the right to say no. When others order you or kidnap you morally, they are asking for your help in disguise. Please don’t give in. If someone takes advantage of your affection for him and asks you to do various things for him, please refuse.

6 Respect your own opinions, do whatever you want to do, and don’t ask other people’s opinions. Having an opinion is the first step to forming yourself. Even if you are wrong, it doesn't matter. (Lack of assertiveness reflects a person's lack of confidence and fear of making mistakes. Think about who doesn't make mistakes in life. Making mistakes is at least better than a yes-man).

7. Don’t take the initiative to help others, take the initiative to consider others, take the initiative to give others suggestions, others do not need it, use your brain before helping others (your kindness may be seen as flattery by others, Others may not buy it, and they will look down on you.

8. Believe in the power of being low-key, and don’t be too smart.

9. In interpersonal relationships, don’t make people happy with your own affairs, don’t say things that belittle yourself and elevate others, don’t show off yourself, don’t show weakness too much, but don’t be too exaggerated when speaking, rather be conservative than exaggerated.

10. Don’t praise others casually. Complimenting others will only make people feel embarrassed.

11. When interacting with others, let others find topics and be active. Leave the task of atmosphere to others. Leave the task of greeting to others. Unless others take the initiative to say hello to you, you can take the initiative.

12. Speak slowly, and then slow down to let the words pass. Brain. When others talk to you, they usually ask you to wait at least five seconds before speaking. Only words spoken late will have weight. Don't be impatient.

The last thing you should not forget. , is the person who helps you when you are in trouble.