Why is a woman's bride price so valuable? What if others laugh?

Asking for a bride price does not necessarily represent a woman's reality or love of money. As for the bride price, men are helpless, and women also have their helplessness. Look at how helpless women are!

1, don't get married with a bride price. People suspect that I have a disability. Netizen jennifer_zhang83: I didn't want a bride price at first, but I was afraid that people would think that girls might be physically disabled or sick.

User walbg: We must have a bride price there. I got engaged this year, and the bride price is indispensable, but my boyfriend and I live in the same place, and the customs are similar. The family has told his father that the bride price should not be more than others, nor less than others, and everyone should live a good life. A daughter who doesn't want a bride price will be laughed at by others.

2, don't be his wife's bride price, my mother-in-law laughs at me. The puffer fish slept by worthless netizens: it doesn't matter how much the bride price is. The key is that this is good luck, and it is also the man's heart and respect for the woman. Sometimes, you don't want a bride price, and your husband may not thank you. Some people may think that my family married a daughter-in-law without spending a penny. After a long time, you will feel worthless or something. One of my classmates was helping the man to consider whether to give a bride price. As a result, her mother-in-law told her neighbors that it was cheap and worthless!

Netizen Ranger _ Tiantian: I said the reason why I need bride price money. Let me give you an example. I just got married last month and wanted it at that time, but my husband's hometown was in the countryside and I didn't give it at last. On the night of the wedding, my husband's second aunt told me that his own son had a girlfriend and was engaged. Their family booked a daughter-in-law without spending a penny. His second aunt's family is worse than her, but the girl will marry his son anyway, and finally she has a daughter-in-law without spending a penny. That's roughly what it means.

Can you see what this means? That is to say, if you don't want it, your husband's family may not think that you know wisely, but they will think that his son is so excellent that girls are eager to post it! Therefore, the bride price is not only a matter of money, but also the respect of the husband's family for his wife.

So the bride price must be mentioned. That's what you want. However, if the husband's family is really not rich, it is understandable to give or not give it symbolically, but let them know that their daughter-in-law is also very good, and it is not impossible to get married without spending money!

If I don't ask you for the bride price, my parents will hold their heads up in front of relatives and friends. Netizen roseyie: I'm not married yet, and my boyfriend often mentions this. Because it is very serious to ask for a bride price in our place, parents will point at the back and say that there is no bride price when their daughters get married. Alas? So depressed!

Netizen Tiramisu _joe: When you condemn women for asking for bride price, have you considered the position of women and their families? Imagine that your only daughter, the apple of your eye for 25 years, is getting married. Are you worried that she will be happy in a strange family after marriage? Will it be treated well? Will it be respected? The economic loss of the man's parents is a loss. Can the emotional loss of the woman's parents be completely ignored? After all, we all live in society. We are not immortal. Face and feelings need to be taken care of. It's human nature, isn't it?